What's the most important quality you look for in a partner?

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SueShe · Accepted Answer

If I was into dating or even looking for a partner, he should have a number of qualities. To me, the most important things about a person, regardless whether this person is to date, to talk to or just to be with are:

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene

That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage.

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

Honesty, empathy and loyalty. There are other qualities too that I admire a lot but these 3 are the most important qualities that I look for in a guy.

mysteriousNicholas · Accepted Answer

@arachnophobic I'm not sure I should say it - lol - 🤪 my ideal early to mid 20s woman white should be short, fit, under 50kgs and hopefully gifted with a flat stomach (no abs yet no muffin top 🎩 🧁) and E cups at the top with brown eyes 😄 👁️👁️ lol 😋 🥛

HighValue · Accepted Answer

Good morals, which is exactly what disqualifies MOST American women.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I will just post what I have posted 100s of times on here already.  What you need is personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, good communication skills, and shared interests and values.

InknKink · Answer

Physical attractiveness is really the only non-negotiable trait. Not to be confused for the only required trait, but the only one that if missing, is a non-starter. Without it, there is no desire for anything more then friendship.

Anonymous · Answer

Somebody who cares about my physical and emotional wellbeing is number 1 but of course there are other things I find important when looking for a parent

katiesmuff · Answer

Honesty has to be near the top if not the top quality.

i_Jedi · Answer

Someone who can make me laugh even when I’m in a bad mood. If we can turn a rough day into a goofy one, that’s magic.

Billlewis · Answer

Either arrogance or selfishness.

Kelly6 · Answer

@arachnophobic Loyalty and trust

In_Trance · Answer

Adequate dental health

Allmenrsick · Answer

No snake

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