Guys who would you rather marry less attractive but high control of her or high attraction but no control of her?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

I wouldn't marry and one that give me any kind of control of her. I'm marring her because of her heart her love her smarts. Her wisdom who she is as a person..

The only time I want her to give me and control is when we have talked about it and she wants to fulfill a fantasy in bed

[Orion84]

Neither. Why does it have to be one extreme, or the other?

I don't want to control anyone. I'm not looking for a slave. Nobody has the right to control another person. That being said, I don't want someone that's out of control, either, because that's just a recipe for disaster.

I would want someone that can freely make their own decisions, while also respecting me, and taking my feelings into consideration, the same as I would do for her.

[Asker]

If you had to choose only one

[Anonymous]

I need to be highly attracted to someone to marry them. I have had a taste of that before, and I need it to be present. I'm not a controlling person at all, but that doesn't mean I'd let her walk all over me. There needs to be some give and take for a healthy relationship to occur. Certain things like infidelity are inexcusable for both parties.

[BarryLiverstone]

High attraction. Why would I need control? She’s an adult with free will

[jahaims]

What kind of pyscho wants to control someone