Would you rather date someone who is sexy or smart?

[coachTanthony]

And you can't say both.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Seeing you said can’t say both😞: smart… don’t matter how sexy they are if they as dumb as a box of rocks😂…

there was a guy at my job that yeah, he was physically attractive, very buff 💪 but not someone I’d ever have dated cuz he was also slow af (and don’t mean physically)

[Bricealan]

@Brainsbeforebeauty Hey 'Brains' what does "he was also slow af" mean?
Thanks for the "like"
Bruce

[coachTanthony]

@Bricealan I am guessing she means not too bright or slow to catch on in conversation.

[Bricealan]

@coachTanthony Thanks Coach, wasn't sure of what she meant. 👍👍👍👍👍👍

[aris1234]

Let s use a scale 0-10 means stupid and sex symbol and 10-0 means IQ 200 and sex appeal of a sewer rat. I would date 4-10 or better and 10-5 or better. so I give a slight edge on the sexiness

[WhereIsMyMind]

Someone could be the sexiest person alive, but if their personality is lacking they soon lose their sexual appeal.

I'd rather be with someone who is smart, their interesting personality can make them more attractive physically.

[Avicenna]

I would generally prefer to date a smart woman

[jennifer_bloom]

Smart - even if he is ugly

[normalice]

I'm going to split this into two questions. A girl who is sexy or smart and aware of her limitations? Or a girl who is sexy or smart but thinks she is both?

For the first question I think a sexy girl. Intelligence is overrated. People have been telling me I'm smart all my life and the cumulative effect of that has been a job, that I do like, but is nonetheless alongside people who were not told that. It just hasn't make a difference. Having a girl I love to bang on just can't be substituted with a girl who can do her own taxes.

For the second question? Hm. I'm not sure. I think again a sexy girl. It's going to be annoying either way but her expectations will be easier to meet if they are realistic for her body but unrealistic for her mind rather than vice versa, I think- that is, if she thinks she's hot but isn't she'll expect to be banged upon and I won't really want to. But if she thinks she's smart but isn't she'll want to think she is engaging in intelligent conversation, and that's easier to fake as long as I've blown all my loads.

I suppose a bonus third variant to your question could be "what if she's both but doesn't know she is one or the other?" In that case i think I'd want her to not know how smart she is. Girls who are confident in their sexiness tend to be more interested in using it to its full extent, when the time comes. Whereas confidence in intelligence doesn't really get anyone anything.

[mobiusforniner]

A lot of women answer "smart" here.

A key distinction however, a woman's definition of "smart" carries with it more than just one form of practical intelligence. Smart means possessing a certain level of charisma. It is being quick to understand social cues and thus having high emotional intelligence. It is having a general well rounded knowledge in all things- from cooking a solid dinner to tuning a carburetor.

It's not the buck tooth coke bottle glasses wearing nerd with a pocket protector and his name printed on his underwear.

[LiLee77E]

Smart is sexy a lot of the time. It’s about the package. If he can’t or won't engage in intelligent conversations, he’s boring, just eye candy. Men like that are everywhere. A man who has his own thoughts, opinions, draws from his knowledge, intuition and life experience - that’s sexy!

[Sweetsurprize]

That's hard.

If you're sexy, you can be proud to have them as arm candy.

But if you're smart, it can take you places.

Maybe it would depend on what you are looking for in the moment. A short term fling or a long term thing. If you're just horny and like someone for superficial reasons, then well...

However, I have also seen people who are BOTH sexy as well as smart. So..

[Miristheiss]

Sexy.

I'm more interested in her being kind and sweet and warm and loving.

Her acing the SAT/ACT doesn't make me find her attractive. Being mature and interesting to talk to also doesn't mean she had to make straight A's in school.

[clampfan101]

You don’t have to be smart or sexy to be sweet, warm, loving, mature, or interesting.

[Bricealan]

I confess Coach, I have made some Major errors in making that choice. Had a blind date with a girl, ( we were both young) that looked a 'TINY" bit like Peter Sellers, (the wire rim glasses) Had a great date, and she was a 'joy! Dumb ass Bruce did not continue to go out with her, a major mistake. Brains over beauty anytime coach.

[Brittanyroseee]

Im sorry but both. I don’t date nor fuck guys im simply just not attracted to physically. No attraction, no chemistry. If im not attracted to someone i will not be interested in speaking with them. I hope it makes sense😂

[provokeesmokee]

Smart.

It's easier for a smart person to become sexy as well.

Stupid is not something I can tolerate for long.

[WolfBaneHunter78]

Smart - contributes more to my life.

Sexy - if I wanted to be bored to death & be stuck with some dimwit, I'd watch paint dry.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

🤣🤣

[ShadowYamihiro]

Definitely smart if i have to choose but being sexy or smart doesn't really tell me anything about their personality which is the most important, don't need someone arrogant who thinks they are above other people just cuz they are smarted than most or sexier either. True beauty is withing. Like i always say : looks capture attention but personality captures the heart.

[Stella234]

I will go with the smart person coz it doesn't matter if he is attractive or not. The smart person can get through many life obstacle with his smartness and he will be very helpful and kind person. and with the sexy guy I will not date him coz beautiful things get more attraction from others but sometimes the values is very low. He thinks he earns the world coz he is attractive. And I dont like it that the person is attractive but has 0 manner, its a direct noo for me. Hope its helps , have a great day 😄❤️✨✨

[BlackBeauty90]

Hmm... brains vs brawn.

Entertaining conversation, events, etc vs a slow minded imbecile with a mirror.

Seriously WHY is this a question. The only sort of person whose gonna go for sexy is looking for cheap sex and nothing of importance.

[Anonymous]

Smart to me or smart to her. Because it's like the word "independent". And most the time that doesn't really mean independent. They're typically just as needy as an avg. woman. It just typically means they're belligerent and have a hard time me getting along with people.

Of course I'd choose smart over sexy.

[ZackBan]

Problem with a question like that is 99% of people will virtue signal and say smart but if you look at their track record it paints a different picture

[Sour-rose]

Sexy. Just because smart means they're probably smarter than me... so could kill me and make it look like a suicide :c sooo smartitude is fine... but smarter than me? Not a good flag.

[MissusFluffyPants]

Smart IS sexy as far as I’m concerned! Smart guys I know are witty and funny and you can have amazing conversations.

Being just sexy would get boring really quickly

[Potteplante]

Smart - can't have a conversation with sexy.

So if the man on that picture is smart - I'd take him over someone I find sexy. (I'm not that into muscles - I like fluff)

[Screenwriter]

Smart is usually sexy. However, sexy is not always smart. I choose No.1.