Would You Rather Date A Person Who's Naturally Hot Or Dresses Hotly?

[fonduegirl]

to oversimplify,
by "naturally hot" — i mean a person who has skincare routine, goes to gym, is well proportionate, has a huge rack or defined abs and biceps etc.
by "dresses hotly" — i mean a person who knows about trending fashion and knows how to dress according to their body type and knows what goes with what.

A : Naturally Hot

B : Dresses Hotly

LoL like they'd ever go out for me

[CaptainOverthink]

Fashion only goes so far and it ain't far to begin with.
Anyone who takes care of themselves looks hot whatever they wear.
Combined however they can do wonders, but fashion does not make up for much of anything on it's own.

Different fashions can signal to different types of people what they are into and give hints to the types of lifestyle they may have. So there is a point extra to fashion there.

As for the natural beauty like described in the poll, being fit usually means they have a good and healthy life-balance, it may not hint to a broader lifestyle but it certainly sets up the frame in which the person lives and a certain standard of being.

Having a 'huge rack', I just don't see that as something of much value or give/takes much out of anybody. In my opinion, being worried about boobsize is totally unecessary, put those thoughts out of your minds. You'd have to be a real idiot (or top-tier and spoiled) as a man if you declined a woman because her rack wasn't bouncing enough.

[Manuel2]

Who cares as long she is hot

[Faith18letsgo]

I’m naturally hot and I dress like a bum so I’d like someone who dresses hotly. I feel like it shows effort, talent, and taste. Where as being naturally hot doesn’t say much of anything except beauty standards are at a good place for you today. The one thing I will say I love about being naturally hot is when I do put in effort my friends and girls I like get slightly uncomfortable around me because they’re not used to seeing me that way.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Damn, a lot of shallow people on here.

[fonduegirl]

Worst people on the internet have assembled here lmao 😭

[fonduegirl]

Some guy just made a fatphobic comment on how Lizzo doesn't look good in anything 💢💢😡

[OfMiceandMen]

Dresses hotly - don't need the huge rack, abs, etc.

I think peoples expectations are way too high these days and they rely on looks too much. As long as she's a lot of fun (has a good sense of humor), likes to read, has a good brain in there, and I think she's a cutey/adorable, that's all that matters.

I don't look for hotness, I look for quality and compatibility.

[Moirine]

I don't know @anon1903 but I don't think what you explain or refer to as naturally hot is actually naturally hot 🔥.

I don't dress for trend and so I know that it'll be someone who dress themselves however they feel comfortable and in clothes that suit their body type as I do, at the end of the day it's all about being COMFORTABLE babe ;). That on its own is hot and being comfortable in your own style is even hotter.

[Spade_01]

Naturally hot of course. Because the clothing people wear as well looks good only when they're good looking themselves.

[fonduegirl]

There are plenty of celebrities who look average at best but they got the pop fashion going. So.

[Spade_01]

Many people who look 'hot' these days aren't even hot, just half naked.

[fonduegirl]

You make a fair point, my friend.

[DextroShade]

Very true, no dress is going to make Lizzo look good.

[fonduegirl]

So you're fatphobic?

[fonduegirl]

Fatphobia is hate towards plus sized People.

[fonduegirl]

The way he said that, I hardly it was a general comment on Lizzo.

[fonduegirl]

I'm not a huge Lizzo fan myself, but I'd never shame her body. I don't need that kind of hate on my post.

[fonduegirl]

Who said it was okay to body shame men?

[fonduegirl]

And she's a celebrity, do you really think she'd face problems in getting a date?

[fonduegirl]

Also, you can reject people without mocking them.

[fonduegirl]

Dating a transgender would make me really uncomfortable.

But this doesn't make me transphobic.

Because I can support them without dating them. And oh I didn't crack a lame joke on them. Sorry.

[fonduegirl]

So you're getting even? Instead of spreading awareness on men's issues, you've decided to seek revenge from Lizzo.

From that POV, maybe as a feminist, I should also give men a hard time, since women have been oppressed in the past.

[fonduegirl]

Yes, somebody will bite, because men are literal pigs when it comes to sex. They'll fuck anything.

[fonduegirl]

"Very true, no dress is going to make Lizzo look good."

This sounds like mockery, since the original question doesn't mention fat people or Lizzo, he's going around in order to ridicule her.

[fonduegirl]

You're entitled to your opinions, but if you're shi_tty, I'll block and remove.

[petitedollbabee]

Naturally hot. Fashion can be taught, looking good and taking care of yourself doesn’t come as easily.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No apparently you can't teach fashion without being labeled toxic... asker enlightened me to that
/end sarcasm

[petitedollbabee]

Depends on how it’s taught.. if it’s forced/you’re controlling your partners clothing, then yeah that’s toxic. But if they genuinely want to be taught and they’re happy to accept suggestions or recommendations, then that’s not toxic.

[Jamie05rhs]

"by "naturally hot" — i mean a person who has skincare routine, goes to gym, is well proportionate, has a huge rack or defined abs and biceps etc."



That's not "naturally hot." Naturally hot is genetic.
All of these things (with the exception of the breasts) are things that anyone can do to MAKE themselves be more hot.

[fonduegirl]

Okay

[Minahh]

The combination of both is best 😀 but I chose dresses hotly. People would be surprised how much of a big difference clothes can make. For me a person can be hot naturally but if he gives off homeless vibes it takes a lot of points away.

[potahto11]

in my opinion dressing hotly shows more about their personality. I assume that if they’re careful and organized about their appearance, they’ll be careful about other things too. Also being up-to-date on trends shows that they’re passionate about fashion, which I like. Anyone can be naturally hot, but still dress horribly and have poor hygiene. But dressing hotly is more based on personality and less on looks.

[Red-Blaze]

Naturally hot for sure, treads come and go
And can always help them with that, even that will say I like mostly casual and only at times care for the current trend, I prefer to have my own

[Kaneki05]

If someone is hot it don't matter what they wear so... why would I care about the one who dresses so called hotly lol

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Doesn’t matter what you dress, if you aren’t hot you can wear the hottest outfit and not be hot.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm not sure that these options are mutually exclusive, but I guess I would prefer the woman who knows how to dress for her body.

[RajjoPink]

Naturally hot for me.
Imagine dating someone who only looks hot when they dress, meaning when you’re with them and you see them without dress they wouldn’t look good in your eyes always and that’s not a good thing.

[peedy]

I'd rather date a person who is more concerned of who she is on the inside being a good person and doing the right things rather than what she looks like on the outside

[DextroShade]

The dress doesn't make the woman, the woman makes the dress.

[fonduegirl]

Unless she's a fashion designer!

[PointTaken]

Naturally hot is what I would like but don't think they would go for me. Lol

[fonduegirl]

Hahaha

[gothbxtch]

i’m not into guys with muscles or mainstream fashion trends, so neither

[TallAnon]

Natural, then I can explain them what I like to see them in

[fonduegirl]

And what makes you think they'll listen? 🤔

[TallAnon]

Because that's what I would do and I don't date people that don't reciprocate wanting to make eachother happy.
I'm not trying to make a blonde in pink go goth, lol; It would be like.. Go down a size and maybe get these things tailored to your figure.

[fonduegirl]

People aren't that flexible with their outfit choices

[fonduegirl]

You can't change a person unless they're in diapers ✌️

[TallAnon]

You think so? I personally don't give a crap. If my girl told me she liked something I'd gladly wear it.

[fonduegirl]

It's different for women.

[fonduegirl]

Guys get away with looking like shit everyday. No offense.

[TallAnon]

No offense taken.
It might be, but I think we're definitely generalizing here.

[fonduegirl]

A lot of men can choose not to care about their appearance.

[TallAnon]

To a certain extent, yeah

[BoopBoopBeep]

There's a saying, if you want to date yourself, dress for yourself, if you want to grab another person's eye, dress for them. I'm not sure why that's a strange concept to some. I'm also not clear who these "inflexible" people are or where they're allegedly at. I've found that little maxim to hold true on three different continents.

[fonduegirl]

Ever heard of "don't change a hair for me
Even if you care for me?" Guess not.

[TallAnon]

I think we're just disconnected in term of degrees here.

I think we'd both agree to use a different hand soap scent if your partner hates your current one.

When it comes to eating, we might get some differences if one of the people is vegan, but otherwise you're probably both going to easily adapt to a different diet.

If my partner likes a beard, maybe I'll decide to keep it. Not a big deal to me.

If she mentions she doesn't think a v-neck looks good on me, sure, a crew neck is fine with me.

If she mentions she wants at least 6 different colours in one outfit, I'll laugh and tell her off.

I expect the same thing the other way around. Some things are ok, some are not. If something bothers you too much and they are not willing to meet in the middle; Break up. You didn't match. That's fine.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Actually, no I've never heard that. Is that a song?

[fonduegirl]

Yes, it's a song.

[fonduegirl]

@TallAnon it really depends. But kudos to you for being willing to change.

[Unknown29]

Option B.

Well until it’s time to put some babies in her…

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Naturally hot. I still understand noþing about trending fašion.

[Pete671]

Naturally hot, a healthy appearance and aura is so hot!!!

[krin_m]

Naturally hot, of course. They can always dress hotly!

[Kingofkings1992]

What you just described is the total opposite of being naturally good looking. Fail

[Massageman]

Some of both, please.

[Frank_90]

What about you? What would you pick?

[fonduegirl]

Definitely the second one

[fonduegirl]

Bonus if he's submissive or she's masculine

[Frank_90]

The one that dresses hotly then

[Frank_90]

You like submissive guys?

[fonduegirl]

Of course who doesn't

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Dresses Hotly

[Willlovewinintheend]

It depends on the personality.

[Grond21]

Naturally hot. A 1000 % yes

[call_me_scar]

I'd be happy with either but I suppose A is better

[Sasha0426]

I picked the last one

[Kathy1983]

Definitely naturally. Where looks effortlessly.

[EaterPeter]

Whichever want to date me.

[TheAfrikan]

Naturally hot 🥵 is enough for me

[Z1pTD]

Honestly either lol

[LavLavLuv]

Naturally hot

[Wise4myage]

Naturally hot.

[shortster]

Naturally