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Would you rather date someone who is sexy or smart? (Page 2)
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sexy. I am smart myself, that's pretty much enough for me.
Does being on the same maturity level = smart?
If yes, then I'd rather date someone smart. If no, someone sexy.
I’ll handle the smart (and sexy ;) ) but she will be sexy but more importantly nice and a good mother.
Smart. If he's just sexy he's only good for sex.
UM SEXY.
I don’t give a single FUCK if you’re smart.
Not one single FUCK. That sounds fucking boring as shit to me.
Smart. Dating a good looking idiot is heart breaking. You keep feeling like you are her carer.
I'd date smart because he might know how to make himself sexy
Why not both?😭😭😭😭 But smart people are also sexy so yeah😊
Smart, but with a nice personality. And sexy enough to make me want to jump her bones - not a real high standard these days.
Sexy. Because sometimes smart is sexy but not always.
Smart can be sexy but not the other way around
Oh, rats. I was going to say one of each, but my wife might complain.
Sexy so that my children can be beautiful and get the life I never got but wished I had
I know plenty of people who are both.
Smart. Smart is sexy.
I would go with smart as well! I prefer someone who I can talk with than someone who is sexy.
beauty disappears but intelligence doesn’t 😉
I'd date someone who is kind, compassionate and respectful first.
I'm sorry, but smart is sexy. So both is the only answer I have for you.
Smart is sexy, so smart. I love meeting a girl who challenges me.
You think I can’t say both?
Well I think smart is sexy! ;)
smart as they will be sexy in time with training
I'd like an equal combination of both.
Intellect & Intelligence are sexy.
I'll go with the smart guy!
i prefer nerdy and luckily nerdy prefer me!
I rather date someone who is sexy AND smart, like me!
P. S. I didn't say 'both'!
I'll go sexy because either way she's not going to like my lifestyle!
Smart.
I reckon Girls who said the same are lying, If they were telling the truth there would be more Shy Guys getting laid and there would be a lot less Male Virgins.
If she is feminist, I wouldn't date with her.
Depends are they sexy and stupid? Are they smart and butt ugly? Too many variables.
I have to have a partner who is smart. I just can't do stupid.
I see the "Would you rather date someone" series is back. I'd rather date someone, who doesn't ask generic and cliche questions.
I'd rather date a smart guy
Sexy. I dont get turned on by a womens intelligence
What if you find smart to be sexy?
Sexy , hands down.
Everyone will adhere to smart but will date sexy in real. Dating is more about the heart than the mind.
Smart, 100%, a hot bod is nice, being able to have intellectual conversation, win
More smart than sexy.
Two in one.
That is my choice.
Smart.
Also, smart *is* sexy. 🤔
Smart, because that is very sexy to me.
Smart I can deal with anymore dumb women
I'm just here for the picture.
Smart... because it is sexy
smart is more interesting.
Smart.
Since i can't f__k smart, i have to go with sexy.
Smart.
Smart is sexy.
Smart, because that makes her sexy.
I will prefer smart guy
How can smart not be sexy?
I would say sexy
REALLY? I'm a little surprised by your answer. I mean, I know you care about looks, but I thought you care about intelligence too. And lately, you seem to have been willing to compromise on looks. I'm surprised that you wouldn't want someone smart? What would you talk about with a stupid person? Also, I feel a smart person would know how to treat you better
@KostasKouvalis He didn't said the person sexy was dumb just not smart and smart mean smarter than average, the sexy dude could be just average, he didn't mention anything about it so
and my mother is dumb and I talk to her about everything so it wouldn't really change anything to me.
For me the most important is not look or being smart but someone that love me and is loyal to me so if he's not the smartest it's ok.
For this I don't know, my grandfather is extremely smart but have been extremely rude towards me during years so I don't think being smart mean treating people better.
I mean, that's a good point. LOL
LOL
Yeah, the girl at work I was telling you about that I wanted to ask out, we're seeing each other again. She has no booksmarts which sometimes gets frustrating but we can still have nice conversations, but for marriage, probably not unless I was desperate. LOL
REALLY? Why don't you date ME then ^_^
Really? I thought you get along well with him.
Well I guess you're right, because my dad is the same way. I don't know, it's complicated. But I just know I'm a sapiosexual, so intelligence is extremely important to me, and she has to be at least average looking. Like there was one girl in my class who was extremely intelligent, but I wasn't attracted to her and wouldn't have dated her because of some of her physical characteristics. Like I didn't even like her touching me. It's rare to find a girl who's smart and beautiful, and the above average smart girls are usually out of my league
@KostasKouvalis I was thinking of the question a lot and like he didn't precise nothing at all, like loyalty, niceness, etc... so
If you already get frustrated with her then this is getting nowhere XD
We live a bit far apart for that XD
I get along well with him now but when I was a child he really wasn't nice to me, always yelling, I think it's mainly cause he didn't knew how to act with a child rather than being mean but I did cry a lot when I had to stay with my grandparents during the holiday (he spend his time yelling at me, criticizing everything i did, said, my friend he hated them just because they had foreign name, he didn't even knew them, etc...).
Now it's cool but before yeah he definitely doesn't know how to act with children.
I mean it's actually rare to find a smart alone so finding someone attractive and smart is even harder most people are either dumb or just average.
I mean, it hasn't really happened lately, but there was some basic general knowledge stuff she didn't k now which really shocked me. She's a nice, cool and pretty girl, but she admits she doesn't have booksmarts. But she says she's only attracted to women now anyways.
So what? Lots of people cyber date LDR. But you said before you didn't feel anything towards me because of my looks, are you saying that's changed? ^_^
Jesus! The old him sounds awful and nationalistic! LOL I know some people don't do well with kids, but that last part is too much.
Yeah, it's damn near impossible to find someone who meets ALL your criteria. And intelligent people have a much more difficult time finding a partner, because they're much more demanding. Whereas a stupid person will just take whatever they can get. I've been shocked by some of the couples I've seen in the States.
@KostasKouvalis Being proud not to have any booksmart is weird cause it's so easy to get booksmart especially with computer.
What a weird girl
LDR relationship seem quite messy to have I've seen and I really like you but not this ways, just like being one of the most important people of my life and most trusted too.
He's definitely nationalistic, my friend name was Dalila and he threw a fit over it, saying if I was friend with such low people I would never become something and never do anything good in my life, etc.. I heard everything cause I was in the stair so I went to cry during hours and was depressed all days this happened during Christmas, he also scolded my father for letting me be friend with foreigner.
When my sister got a boyfriend the first things he asked was if the guy was a true French (so all family French even all Great grand parents) any less and he doesn't consider it French and if he was Catholic.
Stupid people usually just date each other and like there's a bunch a them they have no problem for dating.
Why? Whatare they like I'm curious XD
Smart people usually don't get along with people cause people feel threatened by them and the smart person is to annoyed at them (repeating the same stuff a hundred time is quite tiresome).
She didn't say she's proud of it, she just admitted that she isn't. Which is weird considering she got her Bachelor's degree, but at the same time, not so weird because any bozo can get a degree in the States. I guess she just doesn't care to learn that stuff
I understand. Maybe if we lived close by and knew each other in person it would be different, but that's still nice to hear :)
Oh my God! That is just ridiculous!
Oh I thought he said it to your face
Oh my God! That is so ridiculous and messed up! He sounds like such an idiot, here.
My grandma on my mom's side was really nationalistic. She flipped out when she learned my mom swore off her citizenship, and she would talk shit about the US then get angry when someone in my family talked shit about Poland. And some people on my dad's side are nationalistic.
Ah shit! Thanks for the heads-up. LOL
My entire family is basically Polish. There are some other ethnicities mixed in there, but they're irrelevant. I might be the first one to ruin the bloodline. LOL But my mom probably wouldn't care much as long as she was White and Catholic.
Pretty much. One of my friends straight up said, he wants to date a stupid girl and then a smart girl. Yeah, good luck with that.
But there are other reasons I'm still single.
Ugly, stupid, poor and dress like slobs. Or have bad attitude. I've seen some really disgusting couples/girls. And it's clear some of them aren't ready for relationships, but get into one anyways, and even have kids and then neglect the kid.
That might be true.
@KostasKouvalis Anybody can get any degree really even in France it's the same XD
In France there's a reputation that American don't learn for their degree but pay for it since they pay so much their college.
yes =)
No, he never said anything to my face he talked about it to my parents or my grandmother but didn't gave a shit if I heard him or not.
Things is he was in the army and went in a lot of countries and people there weren't nice to him they were corrupt and rude and so he began to hate them (especially since his mission was to protect them and he got hate from them).
My family is pretty crazy about the nationalistic stuff very narrow minded on it, my grandfather would disown me for sure if I were dating a non White person.
Weird person XD
It seem like majority of people neglect their kids when I was in high schoool their parents didn't even want to give them 2 euros to pay for lunch, didn't care if they were home or not and let their underaged child get drunk, one was 13 years old threw a party got drunk out of whiskey and broke the tv... another broke his laptop by having his glass of ricard fall on it.
That's a good point. I know in Italy for instance, experience matters more than a degree.
That's even worst, I think
Was your friend from one of those countries?
I kind of don't blame those locals, but at the same time, he's just working for the government, but at the same time, if it was voluntary, he knew what he was getting into. But yeah, I've been to places where I wasn't treated very nicely and it has created disdain towards the people, so I kind of don't blame him either, but he shouldn't hate EVERYONE though. And going as a soldier is different then going as a tourist. A lot of people dislike military, I'm one of them.
Oh, non-WHITE though. Not non-French. LOL But I think you said the only non-Whites you find attractive are Asians. I think my mom stopped caring, but she wouldn't be too happy about it, but she definitely draws the line at black and Asian, which is fine, 'cuz I wouldn't date/marry those anyways. And my dad just doesn't care about ANYTHING. lol
Yeah, I had one co-worker who was ordering pizzas and other food to work, my mom even cooked her some Polish food. Yet she was feeding her kids potatoes and boiled peanuts, while she was a fatass. And one time her kid called her to say he's hungry and she told him, "They didn't give you a snack at school?"
Another co-worker had her kid taken away because it was spending more time at the daycare then with her.
The drinking stuff doesn't surprise me. Europeans don't have such stingent drinking laws as the States. American teenagers do the same, but if they get caught the parents get in trouble. Though in some states like mine, at least it used to be like this, it was legal as long as it was YOUR kid in YOUR house under YOUR supervision. But it's not like the government would know what you're doing in your own house anyways.
Apparently it was also illegal to supply Porn to minors, but my parents bought me some. LOL
My parents didn't know they had such strict laws here when they moved here
I'll admit, that part of it is concern about YOUR future. Building a relationship takes a long time. And I've honestly never met anyone I have so much in common with, and I do feel an intense emotional connection with you. I don't think we've even had a fight. But you're right, LDRs aren't really relationships, especially ones on another continent. And this stupid ETIAS only complicates things. But who's to say we won't meet some day, and who knows what might happened if we do ^_^ In the meantime, we can always have fun online ^_^
If you had money, I would invite you to come down to Guadeloupe or Martinique 😉
Smart 100%
Sexy
Smart then take her to to the gym
I'd go with a woman who was smart.
smart
Smart, I have a lot of questions.