Is a husband material man considered "boring" to you?

[Jay-_-]

Whoever wants to shoot an opinion go for it.

[Crimsyjo]

Women probably have different ideas of what husband material means. The base qualities I imagine are someone who is loyal, protective, stable, earning and ready to be settled down. But that doesn't tell you anything about persknalitusurrounding those qualities. Which ultimately determin if someone is boring or not. And that too is subjective.

For me I want the above qualities 100% but also a guy who doesn't take things too seriously. Like be serious about job, goals and the relationship. But otherwise can be funny and not ocd about rules or get moody and angsty all the time. Someone who can let go and enjoy life and be spontaneous. But mostly just be good company and enjoy cuddling and being together. It's not that hard. But somehow it is.

[Ninania]

The only "husband material" man would be someone who's compatible with me - personality, lifestyle, values, and goals. Nothing boring about that.

[Jay-_-]

Are you an outdoor person?

[Ninania]

I'm not looking for a new partner, if that's what you're getting at.

[Jay-_-]

Wtf no bro 😂

[Jay-_-]

Just asking questions

[Ninania]

Okay sure, I do enjoy some outdoor activities, but I spend most of my time inside both alone or with friends.

[Jay-_-]

Didn't expect you to be an indoor Harley Quinn 😆

[Ninania]

There are no people inside unless invited. Can't say the same about the outdoors, which is very unfortunate for my social anxiety. 😅

[Jay-_-]

As a person with social anxiety I completely agree... Specifically me when I'm with the right people I can forget I'm around "humans".. humans🤮...
I'm kidding, I love people but I'm a shy piece of poop.

[Jay-_-]

No way Harley Quinn doesn't go to party's? 😱

(warning: JAY DOES NOT go to party's 😂)

[Ninania]

Just takes too much energy to be around people I don't choose to be around. And of course there's video games inside, too.

[Jay-_-]

Look I can try to man it up but if it's someone new, the social battery will visibly drain and it'll look like I started disliking the person mid conversation 😂

[Ninania]

Yup, that kind of socializing needs at least a heads-up and some prep time, lol.

[Jay-_-]

More like every kind 🤣

[Jay-_-]

We're so optimistic bro lmao

*Sarcasm*

[Ninania]

I'm very optimistic, just gotta stick to what works.

[Jay-_-]

I don't doubt that. It was humorous sarcasm. Nice meeting you Harley Quinn

I'll tell the joker you said hi lol..

[Ninania]

Lol, my boyfriend actually has a joker tattoo. 😆

[Zack-Bann]

There’s no such thing as husband material


It’s not about mowing a lawn or fixing up windows


Strong spouses are compatible above all else
They love more about eachother than they hate and don’t see any deal breakers in one another


People who try to find a cube in a triangle shaped hole are the ones who fail at romance because they’re simultaneously trying to mold one another into something they’re not

[BonzoInBitburg]

If you're boring then you aren't husband material

[Jay-_-]

viewpoint/perspective. "Eye of the beholder"

[BonzoInBitburg]

Boring or interesting comes first in determining husband material. Being boring would never lead a woman to conclude you're husband material so if women think you're husband material, they think you're interesting.

[LazerBean]

Not at all. My husband is husband material, and I find him very interesting.