Did you have a dynamic where someone was continuously giving you mixed signals?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah, he/she was immature in general

Yeah, I think they were physically attracted to me but we didn't have chemistry

Nah, people made it clear where they stood in terms of romantic feelings

Nah, I shut that shit down instantly

[Zack-Bann]

I cracked the code long ago:


If the signals lead to no then it’s a no go


If the signals are a mix of yes and maybe not then it’s a sign of interest


Some people are conflicted when it comes to these things but as long as you take things in a clear and assertive way without putting the other person in an uncomfortable situation it works out


Even girls who told me they’re not into me were ultimately flattered by the prospect
There really is no downside to finding out

[Nikki1989]

Very rarely has that ever happened to me.

[slatyb]

No, I don't waste my time.