Things are great between the both of you in the beginning , you both are inseparable , but as time goes on the chemistry and connection starts to fade , they start to feel bored and want things to go their way You still love and care about each other but you begin to have question marks wondering what happened? You express your feelings of concern to them to find out what is wrong? They tell you they love you but they also tell you they need space from you all of a sudden So you say ok baby have fun, I will miss you , they eventually come back to you and throw themselves at you wanting to be intimate and affectionate with you again because they got their way , So they throw themselves at you to make it seem they are in love with you and they tell you how much they love you making you think maybe you were just being insecure about things , you start to feel things are better but then all of a sudden out of nowhere they get distant from you again and start saying things like they can’t wait to go away with their friends , they also mention something new to you that they never told you before , like their friend invited them to another getaway, excluding you again , Making you think is that why you threw yourself at me the first place? so you can make it seem like everything is alright between us? Are you just weighing your options and keeping me around to see if you can find someone better? I know most people have felt this way and gone through this in relationships, I no longer tolerate this behavior from girls’ period , when it comes to commitment, they truly don’t value you , they value themselves. It has nothing to do with insecurities, it comes down to respect for each other. They are clearly stringing you along , they love the convenience of you , but they aren’t in love with you. If you are dealing with this in your relationship , let them go, they don’t value you , they are just afraid to admit it to you
You ever felt like someone was stringing you along?
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Oh I'm sure I've made mistakes in the past definitely which I won't go into.
Anyways, on the plus side, I'd like to think what I have learnt is the difference between those who will string along and those only interested in stringing or not even aware they're stringing. Whether romantically or even professionally/friendships, etc. 👍🙂
Romantically though, I've learnt to really value physical attraction combined with actual shared interests and actual shared mannerisms. That's I think the real secret to the few happy couples out there 🙂👍
Yea I am not saying you have to hold each other’s hand everywhere you go but your partner needs to be your top priority over everyone period for a relationship to even last , especially these days, where so many people in general are selfish people and only do what is best for them , I’m sorry I don’t commit to a girl that needs space from me the same way I don’t need space from her , If I am living with a girl and I need time to myself , I will walk into another room but I won’t leave the house making her feel like what am I up to where did he go , People that do that in my opinion are selfish people That only really care about themselves , When someone truly loves you they do not need to go to bars and getaways with friends without you period , People that need that in their relationships are people that only care about themselves and weighing their options , I don’t care what anyone says , I been down this road to many times with girl’s that all of a sudden needed space, it comes down to the old saying , you give someone an inch and they take a mile , I’m sorry if someone needs to take a mile from you they truly don’t value you , they just like the convenience of you , Your friends should never come over your partner period , your friends will not be with you until the end , but your partner will be if you value them as much as they should be valuing you , Every couple that needs space from each other is clearly up to no good , I have hooked up with married women and girls that went on vacation with their friends while their boyfriends and husbands were at home taking care of the kids and keeping the house in order while she is out whoring around. And whether she is or not it doesn’t matter , she is only thinking of herself and what is best for her , I used to be so accepting of this in relationships when I was younger to realize I was being played a fool , I use to go out with my friends and leave her at home , drinking and hanging out with the guys
She would get pissed that I wasn’t spending time with her and making me feel like i was wrong for my doings , I then put myself in her shoes and realized what I was doing was wrong , but I never excluded her , I always invited her and made it known she is welcome to come as well, Girls don’t do this when they make friends , they automatically exclude their partners saying she needs girl night or girls weekends , I’m sorry it’s whore weekends , If a girl can’t follow boundaries that she has set with you , kick her to the curb where she belongs period , I no longer tolerate this behavior from selfish girls’ period
I feel nearly everyone has been on both ends of the stick. All we can do is improve ourselves and choose wiser next time
If we keep choosing wiser we will never be able to settle down lol
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Nope, cuz now I'm the one doing the stringing. . . .