Why are the only guys who are attracted to me ones who want to hurt me?

[Anonymous]

I’m attracted to a lot of different guys, but the only ones who ever show interest in me are creeps or jerks (ask about the time I was saed before you question my assertion). Im honestly not sure if I’ve ever had a positive experience with dating. What am I doing wrong?

[ohsheeT]

Ok so I have given you to answers. And each time someone has called me making my answer go away and I start over. So the fast version of my answer. Your going to keep going through this guy after guy after guy until you learn what your doing wrong

The quickest way is to role play it out so this is bold but it's a fast way to understand and learn

You are you. I am me. We chat the way you always do then I would ask you out. And then let's see what happens how would I treat you. But the thing is is you have to be the real you.

But the only way is you have to experience it in a different way but any way. The the second date. But before that I would tell what your doing wrong. And then role play out the second date to see if it's and difference. Lol sorry but I'm texting fast before I get another call. Don't know if this makes since or not lol. In my first 2 answers I told you what I felt you were doing wrong. But this answer I went a different way to prove something to you but any way . This is the best way for you to learn faster I think because you haven't learnt it by real dates.

[ohsheeT]

Ok sorry if you don't understand what i was trying to say i just had to make my point really quick.
Before I had another phone call and erase everything again

[Paul09]

Have you tried asking a guy out instead? Does seem like creepy guys are more confident in asking women out. 🤦🏼‍♂️ I myself just get too anxious finding and asking women out. And I'm very respectful.

[Asker]

This is a good point. Thank you for that

[HollyK21]

I’m in a relationship now but before I met this guy I took like a two year break from dating. I feel like encountering so many lame guys eventually takes a toll on you mentally and after enough bad experiences it’s just time to take a break. So take the break. Step back, reassess how you approach dating, and know what you’re looking for. Even if you don’t know what you want right now, with all those bad dating experiences you can at least define what you don’t want.

[slatyb]

They show interest to everyone. Most have learned to spot them and don't get involved.

[jahaims]

The creeps and jerks are just more assertive. Find a good guy you like and ask him out instead of waiting.

[Anonymous]

At least you have experience dating. You probably are just dating the wrong people.

[Colin234234]

You need to find better