Girls, played like a fiddle?

[Anonymous]

• Since May, I have been in a serious romantic relationship with a guy, communicating daily.
• He expressed intentions of a future family and marriage but recently mentioned he might date someone closer.
• This revelation was devastating, as I believed our relationship was strong. The distance between us, five hours, seems to have influenced his interest in another.
• I feel misled by his mixed signals and hurt further by his suggestion of having me as a "sneaky link" if he chooses her.

[SueShe]

Alas, long distance relationships seldom work. The heck, even those that are one hour apart are likely to break up because you can't see each other as frequently as if you live nearby. "Out of sight out of mind" goes the saying.

Never accept the fact that you are just a backup "just in case...".

In your age group, men tend to want to fornicate on a daily basis and you are unable to provide what this guy needs from you. He does not need your attention, your emotions, your personality or character but only the physical part.

Time to move on and forget that you let yourself into a relationship that was doomed to fail from the start.

[jazzy34]

Ditch him. That guy’s a player, for sure. You deserve better.

[jazzy34]

You were never the only one.

[Nikki1989]

His behavior is not about confusion; it's about immaturity, selfishness, and a profound lack of commitment to you or your relationship. Some men are hard-wired to do this. Respect yourself enough to refuse the role he offered.

[Anonymous]

Dump this guy