Girls, Turned on?

[Randomperson9769]

Third post.. question for the ladies:
Im married and 3 times her age. Girl at work rubbing me with her boobs.. unwanted... trying to stop this. when she came in last night I went straight to her and told her I can't do this... and she said ok but by the end of the night she tells me when she comes in to work she has butterflies and then her pants are ruined... ok ladies is this even possible or am I being fed bs to get a rise out of me or some type of entrapment... have you ever been attracted to a guy that it made you ruin your pants... I'm assuming she means she gets wet down there to an excess... never had another girl tell me this ever... at least not in this situation... does this happen to girls and y'all just don't tell us guys or is she full of shit... I have no money so it's not that and in my opinion I'm not very attractive but I think everybody says that about themselves so what gives ladies... is it possible for a guy to make you ruin your pants without any kind of touch what so ever...

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Also I gave her a ride so we could talk and I straight up ask her if she was after a fuckbuddy or a hookup and she said absolutely not and that is one reason she likes me cause guys her age only want sex so... if I don't have money and she's not wanting to bed a "daddy" what gives... can this be real... could she really be attracted to me

[Anonymous]

Film her and go along with what she wants and then if she is trying to trap you it will be on the video. It sounds like she's just hot for you and wants to get it out of her system and there's only one way to do that.

[Randomperson9769]

I don't think she has bad intentions and she said she's not after sex cause I asked her so I'm really confused... just sex would be an easy no answer as I'm not cheating on my wife. So I'm not sure at this point.. maybe she just wants attention or something... lonely.. wish I could read her mind and know then I wouldn't need to ask here.. have explained we are friends and that won't change but I'm really getting confused as to her motives unless it's legit. I'm poor and she denighs wanting a hookup or fuckbuddy

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like she wants sex.

[Randomperson9769]

Really.. I ask her last night if she wanted a fuckbuddy or a hook up and she said no... so was she lying.. if so why...

[Opinion Owner]

The next time she does it tell her let's have sex or stop doing this.

[Randomperson9769]

No... if she says ok then I have committed to cheating and I'm not... regardless of how pretty , young , and desirable she is... or how bad I want to.. never cheated on anybody I've ever been with and I'm not starting now... not leaving my wife either.. I'm very happy with my wife.. no reason to cheat and she has done nothing to deserve it.. I'm just finding it hard to deal with. She's not like trying to rape me or something but when I try to refuse a relationship it's like she didn't hear me or I was talking a foreign language.. I'm not the asshole who will hurt her feelings... just really taken aback why this girl has pick me to have an obsession... like I said she's barely legal and I'm 52.. really weird... or maybe not I don't know