Yes. Clingy is a turn off. Turn ons would be: independent, confident, trusting. Not "Wha, Wha, Wha, why did you call me ten minutes later than you said you would and why don't you want to go to the party with me and why, why, why, why, why..." Lighten up. Enjoy life. If you don't have a life, get one. The couple will be a lot happier.
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I agree with Cheap Trick on 2 out of 4. I want you to want me, I'd love you to love me, But I'm not begging you to beg me nor do I need you to need me. People need to be independent of one another and be complimentary. I've never been into the whole 'you complete me' stuff. Clingy is a definite turn off for me.
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Guys like to have a girl that needs him just not too much.
Like if she is so clingy she wants to know everything you do all the time and can't let you do 1 thing without her without blowing up in your face saying that you don't love her and you would rather not be with her at all if you can't include her in everything you do...
Guys don't like that at all.Feels good to know someone cares for you but if she flipped out every time I missed a day or two without calling, might get a little irritating.
Its nice to be needed. Sometimes it can be to much. However I am a little crazy so if a girl crazt also nothing wrong with that I could deal with it.
It depends on the flavor of clingy/needy. Some is nice and warm, so is annoying and rude. I guess it depends on the girl. The are far worse thing then being needy and clingy.
It's like eating cake. It's fucking nice in moderate amounts, sucks when you can barely have it but gets old fucking QUICK when you're having it EVERY MEAL
Pretty sure that's dating 101. Not cute.
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