Is there someone you want to be with but it’s wrong?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I do. My ex and I recently broke up and it was a very traumatic experience for me. Long story short we were very in love i still love him and we moved in together after a year mind you all year there were promises of marriage and kids and how we are soulmate. Then we had gone through hardships i felt disrespected by his actions he felt he didn’t have enough space ffrom me and i was living 8000miles away from my family to be in the same country as him and was just a few weeks away from going to visit. He ends up asking me to leave the house we were living together and left me alone with nothing for a few days, ended up calling a friend of mine telling her everything and how he wants to break up and then only he drops off my things and breaks up with me. Because he needed space. I didn’t cry i was so numb and i said thank you for everything i will never regret any of it cause it was some of the most beautiful moments in my life. He teared up and left. His family called me the next days apologizing, then he reached out apologizing saying he wasn't being himself and asking to meet up. We did the day before i left to come home. He apologized we hugged and it still felt like home. Everything felt like it wasn’t supposed to happen the way it did. He came the next morning to the airport to say goodbye and both times he cried we agreed to leave it to time. Since then my family reached out to him asking why this happened and getting upset at how he treated me by kicking me out and i think it put him off. I texted him telling him i found something of his in my suitcase a few weeks ago. Left on delivered. He texted me on a different app telling me not to take something personal. I thanked him. Left on delivered. I don’t know. I still love him and I pray every single day that he realizes that. I still feel we are soul mates I know it.
I keep wanting to write and mail him a letter. But I don’t want to take away from the space he had mentioned 2 months back. Its really a difficult situation to be in. My family doesn’t like him. My friends can’t believe what he did. He himself told me he needs to reflect. Why am i like this?

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

I don't, but I had a crush on my young professor when I was in college. I got over quickly, though

Simslover92 · Answer

Not wrong per se, just not going to happen.

heruncommonsense · Answer

I'm a virgin and I'm straight but at the end of the day, males only bring money to the table. They will give you brain damage from strangulation, give you STDs or worse, and the sex will be excruciating. They will whine about you behind you back too.

I'm not impoverished so I have everything to lose and nothing to gain.

virgo2267 · Answer

Used to want to really get to know long distant cousin cause she had what I would call a perfect round bubble butt… and we had chatted for a long time but too many people were starting to get a little sus so we just decided to hold off until the right opportunity comes along.

We only want to do the dirty by the way. No romance and no holding back

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. During the lockdown things got weird between my brother and I. My parents are doctors and we were left to our own devices at home and our parents often didn't come home for weeks. We basically didn't see anyone else during covid and within a month alone stuff happened between us.

EllieLo · Answer

Fuck yes… I have a crush on a dude but he is in a relationship. Its hard for me to not feel attached to him but I won’t make a move. I think he liked me a while ago but we are friends now. I hope he is happy but GOD how much I would like to kiss him but it is not worth to mess into a relationship even when my feelings are strong.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Not really to such a drastic level no

I do have a cute coworker at my new job and we have chemistry but I wouldn’t put our jobs at risk to go out on a date

And it’s not like I long to be with her or anything.
But I do recognize her charm which is undeniable

Flowersareawsome22 · Answer

To be honest I always like. older guys. I don't know guys my own age are just not to my high standards.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I would rather be at work than on leave right now, and that feels very wrong.

aaron13547 · Answer

I fell in love with a women who thought being with me was against her religion... She liked me and I liked her but the idea of us being together hurt her. at the time i really hated seeing her try to choose. It made me feel wrong for loving her.

Strawberry_bannakiwi · Answer

I know this is wrong but I want to be with my distant cousin, I have luckily moved more on from that

MJVillarama · Answer

That’s a tough spot to be in. Sometimes the heart and the ‘right’ don’t match, and that’s when things get complicated.

Anonymous · Answer

Several years ago, I was in love with a girl who was in a relationship, and then she got married, but nothing happened anyway, it was unrequited love.

Anonymous · Answer

I haven’t because I actually know right from wrong. I can’t say the same is true for you.

zagor · Answer

Wrong? Like a blood relative, spouse of a friend, or a minor?

slatyb · Answer

It's not wrong, it's impossible.

Anonymous · Answer

Define wrong

Anonymous · Answer

Wdym wrong

Anonymous · Answer

Not wrong but her parents don’t approve

Eddaisy · Answer

No, there is no

bunniesrcute · Answer

nope

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