You ever wonder you’re not the right person for anyone?

[Anonymous]

I have many times. Like, you look for mr/ms right but you’re not the right person for no one.

[razelove]

Maybe you're looking at things too simply and are really meant to be in a sister wife or polycule situation. On a more simple level there is no Mr. or Mrs. right. You find someone that you feel good spending time with and make it work, along with building that attraction more.

I've found the work comes in before the sunshine and roses. Granted you get up to a month of puppy love to coast on as a trial run before that. I don't know, how long does puppy love last for you? The longest it has been for me is a month, I wonder how much that varies between people.

[ohsheeT]

Well I think in your case you can think that you can wonder that

But until you go out and experience that and experience something anything then you shouldn't talk that way to yourself because you don't know if it's true because you haven't allowed yourself to be vulnerable to be like to be with the right or wrong person

And you have to give it a chance I mean you can't just pick it apart if somebody says the wrong thing to you or does the wrong thing you have to experience all that in order to even ask this question really

I mean I know you don't want to hear any of this but it is pretty true

So it doesn't really matter if it's the right person or the wrong person you need to go out and experience it even if it's just a friend you need to go out and experience it

[Caroline91]

Not really. That's what dating is for, to determine exactly that. If it's not a match, no big deal.

[Zack-Bann]

I think if you care about someone you can grow into being the right person


But sometimes you recognize that the person they need is not someone you want to become so you have to accept that you’re not the right person


That’s what I did with the last girl I dated
I broke her heart but it was unavoidable because I could never be what she needed me to be

[strateguy632]

Nah, everyone has someone they can match with.

But if you are too picky or hi expect, then you will say no, to the matching one.

[LiamJHayden]

No. With billions of people out there, some lady must be able to deal with my quirks and vice versa.

[noohair]

You might be the right person but you may never meet.

[Gengi87]

You're always the right person for some one hard part is finding them

[Jennz6]

Yes, it has crossed my mind

[NathanDavis]

I'm right

[eagle1951]

already had mind number one

[dudeinohio]

Sometimes

[Anonymous]

Nope.