Do you assume a guy's act of kindness is because he's attracted to you?

[Anonymous]

Someome else asked this question about acts of kindness. I've never had any major acts detailed like his, but it got me wondering what I consider an act of kindness. Last week I talked to a cashier about a fragrance she wanted to get, but she couldn't find, when I went to the store, I found it, bought it, and gave it to her. I also had free reward points that I could have kept, but instead, I asked the next person if he wanted my reward instead. It took time for him to pick it out and he asked questions about what he could have, but it made me happy because he was not expecting this and he was actually looking for a present for his mom. In my case, I assume women show kindness to me, but men don't. A lot of times, within the act, they call me baby girl , sweetie, or say that I'm a good girl. It throws everything off because that's how they see me, and that's why they helped. Moreover, after they help me, they start asking questions about my hobbies or a man being in my life. For waiters, I assume the free entree or dessert was because they're in a good mood.
I've had guys carry laundry for me, cases of water down the street at 8pm, drive me to a 24 hour store to get supplies, pay for my stuff, give me free stuff without asking, wait for me when they could of left, made sure I was comfortable, fix things for me, and take over my job so I can have rest. But I don't know if it's really out of kindness or whether they're just trying to get on my good side, see me as the weaker gender or if this is pretty privilege.

[ohsheeT]

I dont even know you
But I look at you as a very strong women. Who knows who she is and understands the word Love and caring.

Become one with self
Become one with others
Become one with our universe

This is the true meaning of love

The not so funny part is weak people do not understand this
And they look at it as this person is stupid how much can I get from here
That's where the saying comes from don't take my kindness as weak nice
You do what you do because it's who you are.
You do what you do because you can
You do what you do because you know what it feels like to knot have

You always seem to be in the right place at the right time to help someone

This is who you are
This is who I am

But there are fake givers out there to give but they want something in return and create drama. They only give. Because they will use it to get what they want.

They are fake from the inside out

Where you are real because it's just who you are

[AvaRay]

True kindness asks nothing, fears nothing, n owes nothing..

Anything that calculates or expects is ambition masquerading as virtue..

[Anonymous]

Generally, I try to be kind to most people. Some of the things you listed would be over top for general kindness from strangers.