Why do men cheat?

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Why do men cheat?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

The same reason women do all of a sudden someone starts to give them attention it's new refreshing you feel a live again.

And then they create something to justify doing it and then get even bolder and become so smart and think they will never get cought and when all the above happens they become selfish and only care about what they want

And in that moment everything becomes a lie from start to finish in there mind they think there deserve to do it but down deep they just don't want to get cought.

And even then they lie to themselves and will say find anything to make it a tit for tat

And they do it come home and act as if nothing has happen they will tell you a lie like they will say I love you. And be buddy buddy and the more they do it the more they think they are smarter than there partner
Until the day comes where they are cought.
It's not do much that they cheated.

The bad part is every lie they told you or every manipulation they used to get away with it every lie they told you to get away with it and everything they said to you in the time from start to finish was fake
98 % cheaters get cought

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I can't speak for other men, but for me there always is that lust factor that was in the back of my mind. I mean especially when a really sexy girl is giving me the subtle rizz or the green light. Never acted on it though until it became a matter of revenge.

I guess I had to get burned before I started burning back.

Now technically I was also cheating when I lived in Japan by American standards... I was banging hookers and bar girls and I had two Japanese long term girlfriends at the same time. That was a little different though because of the cultural aspect. I was expected to be fucking other women. I was just conforming to the norms. The general rule was just don't bring that shit home or make it a problem for your main girl... or in my case, girls. Like they'd find out here and there but it was no big deal because I was just getting my rocks off. I think they were more concerned with me trying to make a new girlfriend on the side. The hookers at the time were equivalent to about $20USD, so that wasn't really going to be a thing from me.

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

multiple possible reasons:

- they dont actually like their partner. many guys just date for regular pussy or just to have someone, some have to settle, and some want a free maid.

- they used to like their partner but dont anymore. but they dont want to break up/divorce for different reasons.

- they still like or care for their partner but they aren't attracted to them anymore. and dont want to leave them.

- their partner doesn't want to have sex anymore, rarely wants it or there's other sexual problems with her. after a while of trying to be faithful, they decide to give in to cheating because they don't want to be sexually frustrated anymore

- they are lonely in their relationship and dont get much comfort from their girl, so they look for it through sex with other women

- they dont think physical cheating is immoral

- they are in a fight with their partner and want to get back at them

- there are temptations around them, like a flirty pretty coworker, and eventually they cave in

Sweety_Torneeya · Accepted Answer

Because they want something new in their life and got bore of their wife. Its difficult for them to stick up with on pussy for all of their life. They want to taste every colour and flavour and the owner of pussy.

We are animals and we like variety in our life.

Love is just a lie... sex is a truth

Finchie40 · Answer

Most times it’s because his partner stopped giving him sex like she use to , and is barely ever in the mood , making excuse after excuse why she doesn’t want to , What a lot of females’ don’t realize is the fact that she is pushing him away by her constantly doing that to him , he starts to feel unloved and unwanted and unappreciated, so he might be open to another girl that makes him feel valued and appreciated, unfortunately females’ do this as well, when her partner is constantly denying her and making excuses not to have sex with her , she will more than likely get it elsewhere if that is the case or her partner doesn’t know how to please her , so she goes and gets’ it from someone that can.

AviatorTom · Answer

Some men cheat for the same reason some women cheat... because they have the opportunity... and they can.

Someone34 · Answer

Same reason women cheat. A person who cheats lack morals and self control. Often that self control comes from morals and the fact that you know its wrong to cheat, you will hurt the one you are in a relationship with.

With that fact you can also see that a person who chooses to cheat also is devoid of empathy as they can't think what it might feel like for the ones that they cheat one.

With other words an asshole cheat, both men and women. Its a short term pleasure that draws them to do this.

A third option could be that people with failing marriages or not good relationships are more prone to cheat on eachother, there could be fights in that relationship and everything between earth and sky that makes them cheat.

My advice is not to cheat if you are in a relationship like this, as it could backfire on yourself, your future life, your safety, your reputation among friends and family and whatnot. If you find someone new interesting make sure you break your old relationship of first.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Why do women cheat? My first girlfriend cheated on me and then cheated on him!!
My 2nd left her boyfriend to be with me then cheated on me with him!
My 3rd, I left because, as much as I WANTED her to be my girlfriend and vice versa, I just didn't feel that I was in love with her. I was just sort of doing what was expected of me but HOPING I WOULD fall in love with but, it just never happened so, I broke up with her.
My 4th was with me for 10 years and then cheated on me with another guy then left him a year later!

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Why does anyone cheat? I house full of kids are their own form of birth control. The intimate connection is lost if you have to be quite and are scared to be disturbed or caught. A hot coworker and a hotel room takes you away from that temporarily. Unfortunately a monogamous relationship can be a smothering event. The fire that burned so brightly has to be nurtured, Their has to be open communication. It is the very Oxygen that keeps the embers ever-ready to burst into flame. No faked gasms. No body learns corrective technique from silence. 40 years down the line is no time to learn that you never hit the spot. I suppose we cheat because something becomes more important than the relationship.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Lots of reasons. Same as women. Because they're assholes. Because they can. Because they're bored. Because they feel lonely, forgotten, ignored. Because their partner changes... drugs, alcohol, mental health, weight, etc. Because their partner cheats. Because their partner has low libido or is completely asexual. Because they have kids and divorce isn't an option.

Anonymous · Answer

There’s a lot of reasons. Boredom. Maybe she’s changed, maybe that’s what he does. Maybe she stopped doing the things she used to do. Maybe she changed after marriage. He wasn’t ready for a relationship. They had a child. She’s not having sex w him like she used to. Maybe the sex has become routine. There’s a lot of reasons.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Probably the same reason some women cheat. Maybe they want sex with someone new. or to just to see if they can get away with it or because they are bored with their current relationship. Has this happened to you?

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

I can only imagine the excuses one would come up with, but it’s all very simple in my opinion. They cheat because they want to.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Low self-esteem, insecurity, emotional fulfillment, et cetera.

dragoblack · Answer

Same reason women cheat. Either on a whim, not happy with the relationship, just in the mood, they have the chance with someone they consider super hot, and/or they just have no respect or loyalty for relationship.

Katebfun · Answer

Everyone cheats. We are not designed to be monogamous. Its a choice.

Twalli · Answer

They aren't getting everything they want from the relationship. Same reason women cheat, although sometimes all a guy wants is variety, while women are typically lacking some emotional component.

aceleon · Answer

they are horny but want something different. as easy as that.

Cidknee · Answer

Usually he becomes aware that his wife has been cheating with an acquaintance and does so as retribution.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all of us do. Only the bad ones do. They probably don't care about their partner or think they will be caught. They are selfishly disregarding their partner.

exitseven · Answer

There are a lot of reasons. Some are not in it for the sex, only to see what they can get away with.

HighValue · Answer

Only immoral people cheat, regardless of gender. Also, more women cheat than men.

RavVid · Answer

Basically because the wife has stopped being nice to her husband.

genericname85 · Answer

it's very simple. behavior is always aimed as satisfying needs. if they cheat, then they have needs that their partner didn't satisfy.

jahaims · Answer

ALL people who cheat, cheat to cope with self hate. Gender is irrelevant. All other reasons are the excuses told to cope with guilt.

Vegasrunner · Answer

If you mean why do men want multiple woman it's simply because of our nature. That's not really cheating though when a man does it.

qwerty2469 · Answer

I have never even had a cheat meal. 44 years of life and I've never cheated anything. I dint believe you when you say men cheat

Anonymous · Answer

Because they like variety and because for most men, sex doesn't equate to love, it's just sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all men are like that. I would never cheat.  On the other hand, I never had a relationship, no girl wanted me...

msc545 · Answer

same reasons women do except for the money of course.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Same reasons girls do, dissatisfaction and opportunity

Anonymous · Answer

We are all capable of cheating.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Probably for similar reasons girls do if I had to guess

loveyouoak · Answer

Because it's just in their nature not to be loyal.

Flower7 · Answer

Lack of morals and lack of self-control.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Why does anyone cheat?

Anonymous · Answer

Could you ask a broader question?

jshm2 · Answer

Because in their mind, they are not.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

Same reasons women cheat 👍☺️

Fireguy17 · Answer

For the same reasons women cheat.

Richardjd · Answer

Probably the same reasons women cheat

Anonymous · Answer

Because sex was available.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Cheaters cheat because they lack integrity.

In_Trance · Answer

For the same reason women do

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Temptation. Same as women

guesswhereivebeen · Answer

Because new pussy is always better than old pussy

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Because they can.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they're cheaters, duh.

Anonymous · Answer

Horny and no self control

Darklydarkened · Answer

Because it's fun

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Some don't

SolitarySolace · Answer

Why do women cheat?

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Why do women cheat?

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t

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