Why are women so hard to impress?

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Dargil · Accepted Answer

Women do not want to be impressed. Women believe they hold men by withholding approval, respect and stability. They want to tolerate you and hold you off from being perfect/impressive. Acknowledging that is surrender. It would mean they have to be perfect for you. They must hold you to always be striving to improve for them; barely being worthy. If nothing comes to mind, they will invent something.

Every man should expect are respect, approval and stability in a committed relationship and should detect her views of this on the first few talking dates. Otherwise, he should...
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LiamJHayden · Accepted Answer

Some are, some aren't. If she is nto you it will not matter much.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Now this is just based off my experiences, but I’ve noticed that I’m actually interested in a guy and he impresses me within the first date or two he runs along to his friends about how “easy” I am and that he’s gonna get to fuck.
so what do I do now? Act like nothing impresses me because no the dude isn’t going to “fuck” and the fact that I got called “easy” just because I was impressed by something?
but this is also something that happens to many women, we are called easy for the stupidest things ever. The term easy isn’t for someone who sleeps around or who is easy to get in bed, both men and women alike. But now it’s turned into being used because someone is impressed and interested

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Bible says humans are terrible

Summeroflove · Answer

Depends on the woman. Obviously there are women that you can never impress nothing will be good enough for them, there are women where nothings wrong with you and nothing is wrong with them… You’re just not the type for one another.

Let me tell you this overly trying to impress women chases genuine ones away especially if you’re dishonest they can smell it. If you put a superficial act on… You can guess the women you’ll attract. It won’t end well.

Focus on finding whose right for YOU… That’s what’s important not impressing women in general. All women are different as well as quality over quantity.

AviatorTom · Answer

Stop trying to impress a woman. Just be yourself. If she likes that, she will like you. If not, each of you will move on.

slatyb · Answer

What have you tried? Perhaps the things you imagine women want are not what they actually want. I divorced in my thirties. I wasn't anything special -- out of a bad marriage with partial custody of my child, and little money to spend. Even so, I was able to successful dating. Women were happy to be with me. Why? I didn't impress them by spending money on them. Instead I paid attention to them. I listened to them and remembered what they told me. In bed I cared about their pleasure as well as my own. To my surprise I learned that many men don't do that.

Phantomshadow77 · Answer

I think you’re going into a relationship with the wrong attitude. You should want to go the extra mile for your significant other because you want to provide the best version of the universe for them. You shouldn’t just do the bare minimum of what makes them tolerate you so you can keep receiving the benefits of their efforts while you don’t give them the same amount of effort in return. Women just want to be treated the way they treat their significant other. Think about what you expect her to do for you and don’t allow yourself to put in less effort than you expect her to put in and don’t expect her to do anything for you, if you’re not willing to do it for her.

aaron13547 · Answer

Because this is a world with billions of other people all tryin to be the best we can. When you have that many people tryin to do the same thing as you its a competition set up for failure. Don't try to impress anyone just be yourself and it will get you noticed. When you get noticed the first time for just being yourself, you feel like you impressed yourself... in that same way impressing a women just happens. if you try to hard it's almost impossible.

Anonymous · Answer

Because you trying to impress them. And realistically you're probably trying to impress the wrong ones.

It's the age old mistake you see women make with guys (most on this site actually). They choose men that simply can take or leave them. And most are too dumb to get that.

You ever heard the saying, "the heart wants what the heart wants". It's just another way of saying your thoughts are hormone controlled and you're not thinking clearly. She (or he) is not really that into you. And your brain has fabricated an attachment to this person based off a few frilly words.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Because anything you might think is “impressive” they’ve seen it before many times from other guys trying to impress them

That’s why trying to impress someone is a losing game

Instead you should try conveying substance and values that are not tot tied to money or status

If you can get inside a woman’s head you will live there rent free

Sal_Monella · Answer

Because they choose not to be. It's the difference between  She won't be pleased  and She  WILL NOT  be pleased. The operant word in the second is  WILL.  Its used for control.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I’ve never tried to impress a woman in my life and never will and I certainly don’t measure myself from my success with women neither , that seems like a really empty existence.

Hasn’t changed the fact that I’ve never had a shortage of female attention whether I’ve been in a relationship or not.

This is not a brag , just a statement of fact

Fireguy17 · Answer

why are you worrying about impressing someone? You are 46, so says your profile, you aren't 5. You are too old for games.
Be yourself, if that isn't good enough move on, it's her loss.
Is that really the type of person you want to be with, someone who you have to keep trying to impress?
Me, not so much

AgentG111 · Answer

Because 99% of them aren't happy with themselves so they in turn out that pressure on the people that are into them or wanting to be into them in a relationship from intimate to basic. They can never just have one box or drawer open.

noohair · Answer

Social media has distorted what people think is real. And the fake social media life can’t be replicated in the real world. I was chatting with a girl in Africa who never had mushrooms to cook in her food. So mushrooms would impress her.

Nikki1989 · Answer

If you need to try that hard, you have already failed.

Iron_Man · Answer

They are extremely hard to Please. most won’t settle for just a movie and dinner they want a five star vacation

fonduegirl · Answer

Women are encouraged to be as picky as possible. Nobody wants to be called  easy pussy

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Even ugly broads can have their pick of chaps until these chicks reach, oh,40 and their looks start fading. Then it's Advantage: We ol' boys !!!

Levin · Answer

Trying to impress women is the wrong approach. Affirm yourself and be in your own integrity. Then hopefully, the right woman will come along.

virgo2267 · Answer

Social brain rot = high unrealistic expectations from mainly men

dragoblack · Answer

Romance books and movies give unrealistic expectations, plus there's the outdated standards and requirements of dating

thegreenyogi · Answer

Depends on how good you are at holding their attention.

Anonymous · Answer

If you knew how many guys try to hit on us from age 12 up, by the time we are 17 or 18 or 19 we are exhausted from it.

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

Could it be the women that you’re choosing to date?

beenherebefore · Answer

Maybe you're trying to impress the wrong women.

Anonymous · Answer

I have no idea, considering these facts: Girls I like usually don't like me Girls who like me are usually not my type

Pohjolan · Answer

Instagram culture. They compare the 95% to the top 5%.

milkmustache · Answer

Woman, even average woman, have lots of guys hitting on them all the time. I think its a grass is always greener analogy

Anonymous · Answer

By design of society to permanently reduce the population

Anonymous · Answer

Because they need more than guys need to be impressed. A hot set of tits and pants so tight that you can even tell their religion doesn't do it for women.

qwerty2469 · Answer

They aren't. Make them laugh or cum and they will follow you to the end of the world or go through Hell

blackeagle007 · Answer

This is something you’ll have to ask them. I’ve given up totally

JesseP1nk · Answer

But tell us about yourself what is so impressive about you? That they should clap for you

Hªnnªh · Answer

Not me, lift me over your head and I will be impressed !

Rosemaiden · Answer

Depends on the woman and her mood

RandomGirl42 · Answer

Why are you trying to impress anyone? 🤷‍♀️

Jove79 · Answer

You impress them by not trying to impress them.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

They think they're better than everyone

Anonymous · Answer

don't bother trying to impress them

ohvanillalattegal · Answer

Try me

Cassie8_ · Answer

Cause guys try it all the time.

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