What does it mean if you said at work I'm not texting anybody first anymore and later a girl texts me and says so you're not gonna text me first lol?

[Anonymous]

[Zack-Bann]

Damn bro you’re a little dense when it comes to this stuff huh


That’s textbook flirting
In fact it’s the most flirting you’ll ever get out of a woman who works with you


If you think you might like her I would play around with it
Tell her “I might make an exception for you but clearly you don’t mind texting me either…”


Just be polite and careful
Never say anything that HR might use to toss your ass out of there


Always stay vague via text and flirt with her outside of work and even then keep it light unless she gives you an opening

[Asker]

Why would it be flirting? I thought it was just her addressing what I said earlier

[Zack-Bann]

Women don’t “address things”
You think she cares about the intricacies of what you said during a coffee break at work?

She’s trying to get your attention

This is a classic “notice me” message

Don’t overthink it.
And certainly avoid being too logical and analytical with your responses

[Asker]

I didn't think about it like this. It had to mean something because why would she text me first about something I said earlier

[Anonymous]

It means you are playing silly little games.

[Asker]

How am I playing games?

[HollyK21]

All these days and weeks later and you still haven’t figured it out? Just ask her directly since this is on your mind so regularly.

[Nikki1989]

Are you a mute?

Forgot how to talk?

This generation is so backward it is embarassing.

[WhitneySnow]

She’s flirting

[Asker]

How is that flirting? Isn't she just referencing what I said earlier in a playful way?

[WhitneySnow]

That’s flirting

[Asker]

Okay what if she knows I have a crush on her?

[WhitneySnow]

Definitely flirting

[Asker]

I just never made a move to make plans with her