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If a guy cheats he is scum. But if a girl cheats she is a victim, like the guy has done something wrong.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

When a girl cheats, she is scum. When a guy cheats, he is scum as well. There is no differentiation here based on gender. I am only talking about the 2 only real gender (sexes) that exist and not the in-between ones and the new ones that may appear in the future.

Cheating is a red flag regardless who does it. End of story.

Cheating means that the person cannot and will never be trusted to be in a relationship, not now and not tomorrow.

Cheating is so low because basically it is only because of fornication. When copulation takes the lead in a relationship, then it is bound to fail.

Amy_Mi · Accepted Answer

Yes, I’ve noticed that double standard and it’s exhausting on both sides.

Cheating is betrayal, period.

Gender doesn’t soften the impact or justify the choice.

Society often romanticizes female infidelity as “emotional neglect” and demonizes male infidelity as “lust,” but both are still a decision to step outside the bond.

Accountability should never be gendered.

If someone cheats, the reason might explain it but it never excuses it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because to a woman if a guy is chasing sex he's chasing his libido which is selfish and something to be despised. And to a woman if a woman is chasing sex, she's chasing her feelings which to her and others like her is something innocent, pure, and should celebrated.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

And women wonder why guys simply do not care what they think anymore. At no point does a man feelings about anything factor into the way a woman thinks anymore.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Yup, that’s how it has been for generations. It doesn’t end at cheating either. Whenever a woman commits a crime, regardless how egregious, the investigation doesn’t end until they find a man to ultimately pin it on. Women never do bad things, unless a big, bad man makes them do bad things.

neoneo · Answer

Why do we even separate this into “men” and “women”? What matters is the behavior of both people, not their gender. Society’s opinions shouldn’t matter — what’s truly important is maintaining your self-respect.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Not true  No one is defending cheating women  No one She cheats she’s a whore  Been that way since the dawn of time

Flower7 · Answer

I hear people saying that if the guy cheats, it must be because the woman wasn’t doing enough sexual stuff. It seems to me like more blame is placed on women who get cheated on.

Shiprex · Answer

The narrative is that women are victims, no matter what. That has been a long running misandrist spin to keep men cowed so they don't rise up and start revolutions and all that by the ruling classes.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

No. And neither have you. It's just another scenario to fuel your eternal whining.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I'll take things that never happen for $500, Alex.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, more fake outrage.

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