Has anyone else notice this?

[MisterWack]

FOR MEN & WOMEN

Women on this platform are unified and wanting to learn from men & women to learn about others facing a similar struggle when asking / presenting questions.

Men tend to be aggressive, full of hatred, rage, and point fingers at others for their problems while asking / presenting a question.

I love when a community can come together so, this makes everything bitter…

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Examples: One man judged me for saying women were man’s best friend instead of dogs & loving women more than dogs…
I have a lot of men type hateful spiteful things while not staying on topic. Ex: “Do you find the opposite gender attractive in athletic wear?”(both genders), the men consistently wrote back “Women only do that for attention”. “Women do that to be looked at”, “women are egotistical” I know this since I had to delete a bunch just for ruining it and didn’t want others to make toxic.

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2nd Examples list:
Men saying in questions that “Are feminist women the downfall of modern society” then the answers being yes yes yes and yes instead of a no popped in or at least phrased like “No, I am too brainwashed to see the truth”. Don’t get me started on the “political” questions targeting women too…
Point is, let us all come together and not blame women / men for stuff. Just answer the topic at hand best you can without aggression / rage when it isn’t needed there.

[RebelinSteel]

Yeah I noticed it in the first few weeks, admittedly I was forewarned about it. There are a number of people on here that should not be on social media, a number with rather obvious mental health problems, then among those and some others you have the full on women haters, multiple accounts, multiple posts on the same lines. I may respond a few times.

[MisterWack]

@rebelinsteel Thank you for your insight, it is disgusting seeing these people on here tbh. Especially with the kinds of obviously pandered the questions are geared towards. Feel bad for them honestly, wished more women showed them positively / love just so they learn “all women aren’t bad though there are some bad apples”… Sometimes love & support is all that they need before they realize the error of their ways, other times it makes them double down though it never hurts to try.

[DrPepper12]

There are a lot of angry males on here!

[MisterWack]

Thank you, though I count the questions more since it is infuriating when I want to answer real questions… Also they make the majority of men look like fools. Just because morons are given a blow horn doesn’t make them the majority.

[DishLady]

Of course directly relating a person to a dog isn’t ok. You’ve probably got a bunch of people jumping down your throat. You can request to delete the post (and not increase the problem by repeating the comparison again) or you can add a general apology to whoever was offended.

[MisterWack]

@DishLady the question was who is man’s best friend a dog or a woman, I chose woman. The guy judged me for that… I don’t know honestly if that was wrong of me to do. A friend of mine loved my response (I don’t want to rope her into this conversation because she is too sweet and I have admiration towards her)
I don’t apologize for something I’m proud of and what I believe in… That is me.
Your advice is spot on, wonderful and for that I’ll give you MHO. Thank you!

[mandyfire98]

I mean, yeah men in general tend to be more aggressive overall.

I will say though I have seen far more anti women comments and remarks on this site by men than the other way around. Like it's a huge gap.

[MisterWack]

Yeah ikr. The thing is I purposely phrased it as “asking / presenting a question” because comments are… Kinda equal if you look in the right places. One question one woman did to show support / appreciation towards men decided to just dunk on men and not give appreciation so I have seen “toxic” woman aggression even when it isn’t justified… Though the definitely toxic man aggression even when it isn’t justified is far more louder on this platform.
I think these men have insecurities that they wear on their skin, it isn’t men IRL it is men online. Online is a different beast. They feel validated in their digital megaphone and playing to fellow sexists/aggressive weirdos. That is how I see it.
It shines more in the questions throwing tantrums of LGBTQ+, sluts, and politicians.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah it comes down to guys sitting behind their computers chronically online watching redpill stuff nonstop, mad and bitter because women aren't just throwing vagina at them. It's the case 100 percent of the time.

Children lash out when they don't get what they want.

[MisterWack]

@mandyfire98 It taps into those with insecurities then they become what the ring leader is reflecting onto them which can happen for anyone though this movement spreads sadly like wildfire. To put it out is to show love, warmth, support, and kindness also appreciation to men since they feel left out / not heard so to give the extra support prevents them from falling for the first time or from falling deeper.

[Caroline91]

Yes, but if it is being expressed here, then the sentiments exist. Just because someone doesn't dare express them irl, doesn't mean it isn't boiling under the surface and that's what really concerns me.

[Nxtawm]

There’s also some aggressive women on here who are bitter or hate men. But I think that’s the minority for women while yeah there’s a lot of dudes on here who just aren’t aggressive, they just hate women lol or basically treat them with barely the same respect as a sex object. It’s probably at least half the dudes

[MisterWack]

@Nxtawm
Yeah I agree although I purposely put “Questions” because that is where the ratio shifts from a few sexist women to none then to a few sexist men to a ton.
I believe we should respect everyone, appreciate each other, and not be constantly at each other’s throats whether man or woman.

[menina]

Yes, I've noticed this. I wouldn't say it's all men on GAG, but many hate women.

[SpeedAnswerDemon]

Damn man, didn't know you had to do me dirty like that in the start of update 1 ;-;

[SpeedAnswerDemon]

Giggity

[Caroline91]

I’m afraid to answer this one!

[Anonymous]

MEN are the aggressive ones?

[MicahRaine]

You're literally just saying that hoping that women will flock to you. . .

That's total BS

[MisterWack]

@MicahRaine 🤣🤣🤣
I have a girlfriend so idc. Also if I wanted to make this about “women flocking” I would’ve asked a sexual based question which I have done in the past due to curiousity not flocking.

[MisterWack]

Actually 2nd point: I asked men & women, if I wanted women to flock I would’ve just asked women… So it makes literally no sense.

[Caroline91]

@MicahRaine I have noticed that you are pretty much always a reasonable guy and I consider you "one of the good ones" even though I haven't interacted with you particularly. So, I'm surprised you didn't engage in a conversation/discussion about why @MisterWack put this out there instead of making such a blanket statement. The two of you seem very similar to me in a lot of ways on how you both present yourselves here and I admire both of you. Just sayin'

[MicahRaine]

@Caroline91 Yeah I should have replied to him, thanks for the reminder. I have my bad moments.

@MisterWack Okay points taken. Honestly I don't have a great reason for why I jumped down your throat, so apologies.

[MicahRaine]

I think I (incorrectly) assumed because of the way your question was phrased that you were trying to play the "all men are evil, all women are amazing" game that I've seen recently here on GAG

[Caroline91]

@MicahRaine You just confirmed my view that you are a cool guy. And someone whose opinions I really want to hear on GAG!

[MisterWack]

@MicahRaine My character isn’t “all men are evil” “all women are amazing”…. If you saw my answers when women ask why all men cheat you would know this about me and it saddens me to see this treatment from the community still prosper though you are forgiven kind user of GAG.
I always state “same reasons women cheat” then showcase gender neutral examples of why people cheat: using people, sex, make someone jealous or whatever reasons in the moment… Fact of the matter is I never ever play to a crowd on this platform and never plan to, my feelings & thoughts & honesty are of my own creation. If men go “all women are to blame for society’s down fall” I will defend women since that is an arrogant statement. Thank you for writing back.

[MisterWack]

2nd message: You are forgiven Micah. Apologies accepted. Just know I would never play to “men are evil” or “women are evil”, it is individuality… Thank you

[MicahRaine]

👌🤜🤛

[MK1997]

No. There are just as many horrid women here

[MisterWack]

@mk1997
I don’t think you are a man… Though wanted to let you know a male account as said “ MK1997 is a known man on a fake profile though, so ignore “her” “

[MK1997]

I see now. Interested to know who it can be

[MisterWack]

@Mk1997 I’m interested too

[sawno]

I haven't noticed this.

[nolabels]

No.
I don't agree with that assessment.

[MisterWack]

I just haven’t seen that is all.

[MisterWack]

Pay attention to the type of questions that you're viewing (I see ALL from How Do I Look? to politics to general advice to Girl’s Behavior to Guy’s Behavior, I’ve asked about attraction and got a lot of toxic men getting off topic while the women didn’t see themselves being “sexualized” or “slut shamed”(opposite side of the spectrum). Men were going “I wouldn’t like to see women wearing that, they just want attention” or “women are sluts” or “they just want men to stare at them. Fuckers” sort of thing.

Could the percentage of the types of questions that you view be skewed towards those that elicit the types of responses of which you speak?(maybe polls though I check questions of all kinds)
If so, try to make it a point to avoid those types of questions (Avoid them? It is in general, it is an issue that exists I’m not going to ostrich put my head in the sand)
Secondly, think about what occurs when someone is pointing a finger at someone else (Blaming modern women for the downfall of society AND attacking LGBTQ+ or some other thing)

That is all. I’m not responding to every point because I would be here too long lol.

P. S. Look At MicahRaine’s response to this question, I see that as blaming others. Instead of addressing the issue, they claim it doesn’t exist I’m just saying it to get women to have sex with me or whatever.

[MisterWack]

@nolabels What do you mean? All these I witnessed. I went through all the lists!!!
I’ve seen sexist women here and there however the sexist men are 3/10 on all responses while women are 1/10 then in question form it is 0/10 for women and 6.7/10 for men… What are you talking about?

[MisterWack]

@nolabels One never said you were “rosy” whatever the f that means two I don’t have aggression towards men or women….
Three, if you had those issues? Congratz on getting cured by sister & therapist.

Cheers weirdo

[nolabels]

Bless you, man.

[DarkLegacy]

Not correct im afraid

[MisterWack]

@DarkLegacy Dude I’ve seen it and have tons of examples on here. In the comments / responses yeah can be equally sexist time to time though questions 100% men being sexist.