So love bombing is okay?

[Anonymous]

Guys so I am dating for first time , can you tell me how to spot if a guy is genuinely sweet or is love bombing? how does love bombing look like? can we spot it if a man is going it? also can you tell me if someone is only attracted to you but not really in love?

[slatyb]

The first clue is that he says "I love you" after a couple of dates and overinvests in the relationship early, showering you with gifts and attention. HUGE RED FLAG. This is a sign of immaturity and desperation. He's not in love with you, he's in love with the idea of having a girlfriend, and in love with his fantasy of a girlfriend. When you don't fulfill that fantasy, and turn out to be a real person with needs and desires, he will ghost you.

The worst thing you can do is marry a man like that. He will take everything and leave you with nothing.

[Asker]

Oh okay understood. thanks

[Alex-Snow]

It comes with trust. Go with your gut. Take it slow. If he tries to rush having sex that may be all he wants. How old are both of you? Is he new to dating or sex also?

[Asker]

We both are adults , no only I am new to dating he's have had a relationship before and no we didn't had sex but did kissed and cuddled

[Alex-Snow]

Good for you... take it slow and have frequent open and honest convos about things.

[neoneo]

Go slow on this one. If a sexual proposition comes, test if he can stop when you say no.

[BarryLiverstone]

Seems like the more gag that guys and girls love bomb the more it’s accepted. Do you want a long term relationship?

[Asker]

I don't know if I was love bombed cuz all was new to me. yes I want a long term relationship