I am looking for a partner? Im 23 years old. I have never been in a relationship. Never dated, never kissed, held hands or had intimacy. can you help?

[Sanguine8888]

[Zack-Bann]

It’s just like DishLady said honestly


You’re basically asking to play in the Super Bowl and you haven’t even thrown or caught a pass yet never mind made a touchdown


There are levels to this


23 is young


Honestly I had my first everything right before my 23rd birthday and now as I am nearing 28 I’ve been with more women and have had more relationships than most of ancestors combined
Never mind my current friends and relatives


But it’s because I stopped being anxious about skipping to the ending of the story


Not wanting to deal with the stress of asking a girl out
Or the heartbreak of being told no
Or the anger of watching your crush ride off with someone else


Eventually you become a spectator of your own life and there’s no one out there playing.


So start with the beginning.
Before you look for a “partner”
Find a date to have a nice time with
And then find a date to hug and kiss
And then have sex with someone
And eventually you will be in the game with enough skills to turn a girl you like into your girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Yes. First off, you're still really young. 23 is not that old. I know you think it is, and that there are people younger than you sleeping around and having a grand ol' time. And I'm not saying some aren't. Bit let me tell you, social media is full of lies. Women your age can be broken down into two groups. 1. Whores who sleep with guys at the drop of a hat. Or women who are just insecure and reserved. But all women want to feel wanted, included, and to have fun. So you need to focus less on the women and more on finding your joy. You do that and the women will naturally gravitate to you.

My advice to you. Grab some friends and frequent a lot of concerts and music festivals. I almost always get approached by at least one woman at a concert. It makes sense. Music is playing, alcohol is flowing, and a woman's inhibitions are at an all time low there.

If you take ANYTHING from this post take this. Women do not typically make very good choices when they choose men. They choose whoever the goblins in her brain tell her to choose and that is HIGHLY influenced by her feelings. So if you're out smiling, laughing and genuinely having fun. That's like a flame and she's a moth. But never take a woman serious until there's really good reason to take her serious.

[SueShe]

To avoid you a lot of disappointments, let me inform you of the following:

GAG is not a dating or flirting, sexual exchange or pick up site. This is a Q&A site where people ask questions in the hope to get a number of answers to their questions.

You would be so much better off using a dating app where girls go there to meet guys and perhaps chat. It is very unlikely that you will find your luck hitting on girls here.

Sorry to disappoint you but we get spammed so many time every day with that type of requests by desperate guys hoping to get acquainted with girls using GAG.

Honestly, you are in for a big disappointment here if that is the reason you joined GAG.

Have you ever tried or considered one of those many dating, hook up or even porn sites that are perhaps better suited to your needs?

Thank you for understanding and giving the community a much needed break.

[Genie23]

Have you tried approaching girls? If you're very shy or are introverted, you could try dating apps, but I think there are higher chances of you finding your potential partner by approaching them in person than texting them on a dating site.

[DishLady]

Before you get a partner you just need to go get laid, kid. You don't just hop into relationship juncture without walking along the road for a while and meeting different people. You ned to get out more.

[capriVib]

It's because you don't have a social circle. Improve your personal care and your looksmaxxing. You need to be the one to meet girls in the right environments; they usually won't come to you. If you can't find those environments, your chances of finding someone online by smashing all the buttons (randomly trying everything) are low, unless you are a high-value man.

[Anonymous]

I'm about two decades older than you, and I have never been in a relationship. Never dated, never kissed, held hands or had intimacy... nobody ever helped me.

If I knew how, I would help... but as you can see, my issues are even worse than yours.

All of my loves were unrequited.

Girls I like - Usually don't like me back.

Girls who like me - Are usually not my type.

[petitedollbabee]

There’s a large variety of dating apps and services out there. All you have to do is look and put the effort in.

[BarryLiverstone]

No, only you can help you. Start by making more friends

[Vegasrunner]

Yes. Go out and start making money to increase your value.