Do guys not know that they do ruin some girls perception on things?

[Anonymous]

I’m asking for myself and some friends.

i won’t speak on there experiences much, but we do have obviously a few things in common when it comes to this topic.

ill start with dating, and this can definitely go both ways between men and women. But in this instance its the men that we’ve been around and seen on social media that have kinda ruined it for us.

lets not start with the “pick better” thing, I’ve never been in a relationship before but I’ve been around guys who talk about how it’s “cool” to cheat.

but I constantly hear about how men like to cheat at any convince, the woman there with doesn’t want sex for the night? Then they automatically think about cheating. It’s just really odd to me that it’s like that.
the next would be sex. the way men talk about sex, does disgust me. Because they call it “bonding” yet they’re telling all of there friends what the sex was like…. That’s just rude to the partner, that he would feel okay with talking in detail about something that’s supposed to be shared between him and his partner. Also the whole hook up culture, which is both men and women. But it gets to a point where they play as if they want a relationship then switch up when the girl won’t have sex with them once the relationship starts.

Now I’ll say this, I’m not asexual or into woman at all, I’m into men. Which I hate that I have to state this because everytime I ask a question on here at least 2-3 guys claim I'm “asexual” just because I said I wouldn’t have sex with a guy I just got into a relationship with.

I grew up not wanting to do hook ups or sleep around, so why would I have sex with a guy I just started dating? That would mean that I’m easy and don’t value myself at all. I just don’t want to have sex with a guy right from the jump, waiting 2-3 months into the relationship is okay. It gives me time to figure out if the dude is possibly abusive, or if he’s just there for the sex.

[HighValue]

I have only ever known two guys like you describe in my whole life. You must be around liberal/democrat men/people if that is continually your experience. I don't know exactly what you look for, but I'd suggest finding an older man that has strict morals that he sticks to and that to some people may sound like he possibly hates women, but it is actually because he has been disgusted by the majority's lack of morals. That could be the type that matches you better morally. Definitely don't be around liberal ones because they are exactly the type you seem totally incompatible with. Try to find someone that doesn't even drink alcohol and isn't easily influenced by others to do stuff like that just to "fit in" like weak willed people do.

Also, people that have lots of social media are often morally corrupt. For a better chance of a successful long term relationship, both people need to agree to not have smart phones, but good luck finding someone like that since most people are obsessed with them, no matter how much stress and hardship it brings into their lives.

[Anonymous]

Would you like some cheese with that whine?😆

Why would any guy feel bad for you? Playing the victim (when you're not) is not a good look. You don't think Succubi from your gender don't f*** with and destroy men? No of course you don't because that doesn't even register with you. Because in your mind it's all about you.

I know you said you don't want to hear it but, "pick better".😆

[Asker]

Hey bud so one I haven’t been on a date before, so these not need for “pick better” lol.
Not my fault that my “gender” does that, sorry y'all are into women that sleep around cheat. But then again your around my fathers age blaming a girl that’s never had a boyfriend for talking about a topic, which is why I stated “ I’ve never been in a relationship before” so go ahead and knock that one off you list. I’m not playing the victim in anyway lmao, I’m simply asking why guys like that. But hey men also destroy women, so let’s not act like it’s not a mutual thing that both genders do. I mean look at you right now, seems like your trying to put down a young woman who’s trying to understand why guys do this and how to tell from the jump so she can stay away from those kinds of guys.
My mind definitely isn’t all about me lol, I have no sisters. Other than my mother, grandmothers and aunts it’s just my brother and my cousins are all male. So let’s go ahead and skip all that. Obviously I’m not going to ask my male family members about things regarding sex.
But then again your 45+ and reacting this way

[Opinion Owner]

18-22 and acting about 15. You may be younger than me but you're still old enough to know better. If you want help maybe ask for help. Men do not OWE you anything. If your FATHER never taught you anything worthwhile about men maybe you should take that up with him.

[Asker]

lol. My father taught me that men are dogs and that some deserved to be kicked. I mean geez… you sound like an angry old man that’s probably gonna be capped soon. And where exactly did I say men owe me anything? lol, I’m looking and I ain’t saying anything.
You sound like a guy who’s had a hard time with women and you’re taking out on young women because it’s easier than doing in real life. Which by all means please go ahead, my dad is sitting here saying you’re the dumbest loser he’s seen on the internet and he’s seen a lot of losers. So go ahead a jerk off to porn, it’s all good. Personally I don’t need advice from a old man who jumps up to talk the way he does

[Opinion Owner]

Did I say 15? More like 13. Time to grow up kid. Because you're not acting like a woman, just some little See You Next Tuesday. Don't worry about dating hun. I can already see your future.😆

[Asker]

Can you actually? I was wondering if I’d end up with LeBron James 🙏🏽 🙄
Grow up? Lmao, maybe you should act like the age that you are, “see you next Tuesday” nobody will be seeing me next Tuesday honey. I’m not sleeping around neither am I dating right now.
I mean geez, you write as if you are wise but you spouting the same things that father teach there daughters to stay away from

[Opinion Owner]

Are you really that stupid that you didn't get that.🤦‍♂️😆😆😆 That wasn't that hard to get. I even capitalized it.😆
This is a just a pink troll and I'm just feeding animals and your doing tricks. Before you go out and turn tricks. Your dad knows this. He raised you. He knows what you are. Make sure you read this to him. He'll get a kick out of it.

[Opinion Owner]

We're both laughing at you.😆😆😆

[Asker]

Lmao my dad is sitting next to me, he’s the one that said your the dumbest loser he’s seen on the internet lol.

[Asker]

Imagine thinking you ate, when all you did was lick crumbs.
My dad said that your the same kind of guy he’d beat on the sidewalk for looking at him wrong

[Asker]

Also my dad said not to forget to lick your friends balls on the way to fuck each other lol

[Nikki1989]

Men are often their worst enemies, and this website is a perfect example of that fact. I was just alerted to a comment on a political post where men were bragging about raping and beating up a woman, and of course those in change on this site (surprise, surprise, more men) just let it go.

And men wonder why we call out their bullshit.

[Asker]

Exactly! And when there called out about it it’s suddenly “I don’t do those things” so why joke or brag about it?
I once had guys that I went to school with joke about raping and how it would be “fun to do”, apparently it wasn’t funny anymore when my dad came to pick me up at the football game and told them that there 1 year away from 18 and that means he can deal with them. Safe to say I’ve never heard them talk like that, they probably say those things in private, but all I know is they won’t be gettin me

[Anonymous]

Guys like that are stupid.