Ladies, do you think you would still enjoy dating if we men were just as picky as you?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

as I said before, it doesn't take rocket science to notice that women only like to date and fuck the 10% of the men and it can't be a coincidence that women are the only ones who actually enjoy dating nowadays, even women you would think would have the hardest time in the dating world gets dates every now and then

however I always wondered, would women actually enjoy dating this much if we men were as picky as them?

how exactly would it look for women if we men only dated women who...

• look like are favorite pornstars?
• are dtf on the first night of the date?
• always willing to pay for herself at the date?
• love to cook and clean?
• dont like drama?
• dont require too much excitement and stimulation?

would women still be as happy and prideful at dating as they are now if men had these expectation?

yes

no

[Effably]

I think it is pretty important to remember that looking good is a pretty widespread interest among women and men rarely put effort into that except possibly working out.

Even just makeup. On a typical 1-10 scale is going to net you an extra 1 or 2 points if well done. This goes for men and women. Women normally use it. Men don't. If we rated women even with just removing all makeup, this would look a lot more even.

I'd consider myself a 7 typically. 9 if I am your type. With some professional level makeup? Suddenly I am everyone's type. That alone makes me have to fight people off on a night out. I am actually very glad us guys have not made makeup mainstream yet, despite how ridiculously much it helps.

Then add in how bad us guys are at taking photos, sort of a wonder any of us get dates online.

[Sevenpointfive]

i have a friend that can have a new girl every day just from dating apps. he is attractive but it's the photos. my photos suck and make me look homeless. but when we go out together... i get the girls but i can't on the apps.

[Effably]

I absolutely agree. I have a friend in the exact same position. He looks good enough, but photos makes you stop and "Is this guy a model or movie star?".

I feel bad doing that. But I still had some influencer friends (little sister) take mine. Definitely helps so much.

[Sevenpointfive]

you'd think they'd wise up to this because he's got a freakin' professional headshot up LOL

[Staximus]

Normal guys don't wear makeup. Guys that wear makeup take it in the ass.

[Sevenpointfive]

@Staximus he sure gives it to women up the ass

[HighValue]

They will just lie and pretend they would. The majority of women can't even understand 5th grade level math (average/mean) that is why they think the majority is somehow 7+. Pure stupidity. Go back to elementary school women because many of you have no idea how averages work.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

they do that on purpose. whether we are chads or incels they always assume that we have the same advantages in dating.

this is no different than sharks telling us that we can all survive swimming in the ocean, even if we know how to swim or not. they dont care just as long as they got a high volume of victims in their habitats to munch out of

[itsannalee]

I've seen more couples of unattractive men with beautiful women than ugly women with attractive men.

[HighValue]

The women are often unattractive and hide their shameful appearance with makeup. ALL women that wear makeup are ashamed because they know they are not nearly as attractive as they pretend to be. Dumb, lazy, hypocritical, and unattractive = the MAJORITY of women.

[itsannalee]

Projection much? Your rant says more about you than women. And still, you ain’t got one 😏

[HighValue]

You are one of the ugly ones with tattoos. Of course you hate the truth because it exposes people like you.

[itsannalee]

Cute. Insulting me won’t make your opinions true, it just shows how threatened you are 🥱. And you can’t even afford me. Try harder 💅🏽

[jahaims]

You don't know what an opinion is if you think they are true or false lol

[slatyb]

Men are just as picky as women. The men who complain that "women can take their pick" are also picky. The don't realize it because about 80% of the women they see are invisible to them. If they weren't picky, they could find a willing partner, just not one they want.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

highly doubt it.

like the dude in the video said, women literally want to date men who are above 6 feet tall. not only is that only 15% of the population but that is something we have no control of. the height you reach during puberty is the height you will be for the rest of your life.

now imagine if we men demand that the women we date must look like the pornstars or OnlyFans bimbos we beat our dicks to

[slatyb]

Hmmm... I'm 5-8 and had no trouble attracting women after I divorced in my mid-thirties. Three dates and they were inviting me to bed, then telling me I was the best they ever had. Why? Simple. I paid attention to them. They weren't used to that.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

You think they weren’t used to attention? Every average-looking girl with a dating app gets more attention in a week than most men get in a year. What they’re not used to is being truly attracted to the guy giving the attention. You were probably just a feel-good pitstop on their emotional rollercoaster.

also I was just using the height thing as an example, so dont get too cocky. I can write a book of all the many arbitrary standards and requirements women apply in the dating world. most of them are way out of our control too.

I'm the same height as you by the way and the only thinh I haven't accomplish that you have is getting married. which I won't because that is a life sentence in today's world

[slatyb]

So you are 5-8 and able to get dates? Doesn't that contradict your assertion that women only want men who are six feet tall? Or are you dating women you aren't attracted to, feigning interest to get them to have sex with you?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

again you are holding that one example I made at a death grip.

there are women who have far higher expectations than that such as expecting you to make 6 figures, have a dick that above 6", expecting you not be bald and many other superficial standards that is out of humanity's control

[Zack-Bann]

Pretty sure men are way pickier than they claim


I know I am


So are most of the guys I know


We just don’t flex our high standards as some sort of personality trait

[Filthy_Immigrant]

not sure what planet you live in but we men aren't the ones demanding women to be above 6 feet for example.

not only is that only 15% of the population but that is something we have no control of

[Zack-Bann]

No we’re not “unreasonable” that way

But do we want the woman to be fit
But also have curves

We do want her to have healthy soft hair (regardless of how she styles it)

Skin too

We do want her to have some feminine class not just walking around in a mustard stained shirt smelling her own fart

The list goes on

It’s little things

And they seem perfect fair to look for
But they take work to achieve

And that’s what standards are

[Filthy_Immigrant]

all the standards you mentioned are achievable through fitness , healthy eating and good grooming. its when standards defy reality that it becomes “unreasonable”

[LiamJHayden]

That was my experience on dating apps, but it has rarely been like that in person. Maybe that is because I am so extroverted and happy.

[Xawyx-2]

I'm actually quite picky according to statistics above.

[On_cloud_wine]

Yes. Absolutely