I’m not big and muscular and domineering in appearance either.
But I do take care of myself and I always try to dress well. And I’d like to think I look decent as I have gotten compliments before in the past.
But that still doesn’t change the fact that in terms of dating, I’ve never once gotten approached. And always been single.
And while I get that its expected for guys to take the lead most of the time, I’ve still seen with my own eyes, other guys being pursued.
So I don’t know what my deficiency is but somehow I go unnoticed.
And while I get that I could be doing more I just don’t feel like doing more.
I’ve grown too comfortable spending a majority of my time alone.
And while I’d still occasionally like to be with other people, I just feel as though its not in my place to chase them down.
So I guess I’m just wondering what I could be doing differently.
I feel as though I’m not necessarily doing anything wrong to make others not like me.
It’s just I’m doing myself harm by spending a majority of my time alone.
So if there’s one advantage taller guys have its that they seem more ambitious and self confident in general.
Whereas I wouldn’t say I’m insecure, but I am very indecisive and uncertain about a lot of things in my daily life.
I routinely question whether or not I’m making the right decisions instead of acting out of absolute certainty.
But I don’t let myself get pushed around either. I’m not afraid to stand up to those who overstep their bounds but I certainly am not the one to be the leader for other people to follow.
I suspect that being born taller as a man is what makes you feel more confident.
So even though I’d like to think I’m not a bad person it’s just I feel as though there’s nothing impressive about me and that I have nothing to show for myself.
I could always try talking to random women in the cafeteria, but I just don’t see the point in trying with girls unless I see them routinely.
I’ve been there man. Do you feel like you’ve had no luck at all?
Yeah pretty much
Is it the lack of interest or you’re lacking the social aspect of approaching?
To be truthful. I don’t feel a strong calling towards most women
There lies the center of it all man. Has it always been that way? You can inbox me if you want.
Yeah its been that way for a long time. I’m just not sure I want to deal with the drama of most women but at the same time, a little company is still nice every once in a while
If that makes sense. I’m not sure