27 F might as well give up on love? Hopeless generation?

[Anonymous]

So to start, sometimes or i mean majority of the time, i wanna give up on finding love. I’m 27 and I have zero hope whatsoever as im pushing 30 in a few short years I know it looks even worse. I don’t party or smoke or drink I honestly am a laid back girl who works hard with two jobs. I’ve never been lucky with love. I don’t think I’m unattractive but I know I’m not a 10/10 but most guys have said I’m a 6.5 or 7 maybe an 8 to some or my own opinion. I’m a natural girl average weight and short height. I am very generous, funny, kind, caring, loyal, and honest. Most guys don’t see me romantically though. The good ones where I do live are already married or in a relationship. Dating apps have also sucked because I either get ghosted or people just wanting sex. I don’t know what I do wrong because I’m so nice but always get hurt. I’ve only ever dreamed of being a wife and having a family. I feel like there’s nobody out there because people lie so much and don’t know what they want. Am I doomed?

[HighValue]

If you don't have kids, no contact with any ex, don't post provocative/revealing pictures online, don't have tattoos, nose rings, or anything like that, that is considered ugly by the majority of men, and you are into gaming, you should be able to find a good quality moral man. Why the gaming thing? Many men your age and older have been repeatedly scr3w3d over by women and seriously dislike most women so they focused more on their hobbies for years to the point that if being with a woman means giving up their hobbies that were there for them when nobody else was, they won't be interested. Also, be either White, Hispanic, or Asian and not Atheist, Muslim, Jewish, or a democrat. If all of that matches for you, you should have a good chance still.

[Asker]

I don’t have kids, don’t talk to my exes ever and only have two small tattoo. I’m Hispanic and White, sometimes I play video games but I’m not a person who sits on the game all day. I am hardworking but also have a good balance, I like to workout as well, bake, sing, hangout with friends, take pictures and spend time with family. I’m a chill girl I just don’t like being out there, never been the party or going out type.

[HighValue]

What do you look for in a potential partner?

[jahaims]

The guys you want, who have it together, get their pick of women so you are competing for a small percentage of men. If you can't pick out the right guys you probably aren't as high up in the dating pool as you might think. It sounds like you also don't know what to look for if you keep ending up with bad interactions with guys.

[RandomGirl42]

I dont claim to have any magic answer and I dont want to just say cliche' shit like "love will find a way" and all that BUT I do believe in love on all levels and I have heard so many stories from people who said it was when they gave up, stopped looking, rolled over and played dead, thought it was hopeless, helpless, horrible and done that finally it happened for them. So, who knows? I hope the best for u. 😊

[itsannalee]

Don’t try to find someone who loves you, love your self first. After that you will meet someone who loves you in the right time.

[Asker]

That’s the thing I feel like I’ve put in so much work. I love taking myself out on dates, spending time alone playing games, going for walks, exercising, and so much more but I wish I could have a romantic connection lol not just a hug or kiss from my parents, my dog, and not just friendly company. And it’s not everyday this hits me but once in awhile it gets sad!

[Nikki1989]

You are not doomed, but this is indeed a hopeless generation. You only have to look at the endless mindless posts on here about dating to see that. Most people don't even know how to talk to each other.

[Anonymous]

It's like this for men as well hun. The reality is most people do not want a relationship (except if it's completely on their terms) and they just going to play games with the rest.

The good news is being single is not a fatal condition. You'll be ok.👍

[midnightcavern01]

Well im fucked then😂. Give up or don't. Date a plant or dont. If its meant to be; it'll find you

[Staximus]

You just need to go out with your friends and meet some more guys

[YourExLover69]

May I know which country you from and what's your height exactly?

Age range for you in A guy? 😉

[ABC1x1x]

You are smarter than you look. If you aremt married by 19 its over.

[Asker]

Didn’t meet anyone in school sadly either

[ABC1x1x]

Yeah. Bad luck. One of the smartest, funniest, handsomest, best provider, strongest dudes i know is single. Fell in love once and when it didn't work out he just stayed alone. 44 years old. My best friend. Im physically agree at the world that this guy will probably never marry or breed.

[Asker]

I believe I am meant to be alone sadly:( I know women with 4 kids and are 21 meanwhile I’m 27 with 0 and never been married and everyone around me adores me, knows I’m a great person and I have a lot going on but just have the worst with love like it’s a curse or something.

[ABC1x1x]

Gp to Church. You will find a decent man your age equally unlucky. The unhappy shun God and his church. You are not out of time but you are close. Seek God and he will find you a decent husband

[Anonymous]

Hopefully not. I'm a male in a very similar situation.