Do you think you have a good personality?

[Anonymous]

What's your own judgement on your personality

[Genie23]

People laugh at my stupid jokes and smile at me often. So, I'm guessing they are either too nice and putting up with my lame jokes or I have a good personality and they genuinely enjoy my company.

But on a serious note, I think so even though I do need to work on my flaws. I've seen many people find it easy to talk to me. I've been told by some people that they felt comfortable around me and felt like they could trust me soon after meeting me. Some shared their contact numbers, shared personal things and told me where they live when I first met them (not talking about romantic intent, lol). So, I feel I have a decent personality if not a good personality.

[Asker]

Notice how you only shared other people's opinions, not one description was from your own point of view 🤔

[Genie23]

I shared mine. I think I'm alright but I need to work on myself. 😅

[Asker]

Mhm, I see 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐

[Genie23]

Here's the thing, I'm too self critical. When I view myself from others eyes, I think I'm good. Otherwise, I see too many flaws. So, maybe I am let's say 8 or 9 out of 10 personality wise, but I think I'm 6. I hate rating, but I am just trying to explain how I see myself, lol

[Asker]

You should be able to see all the good things about your personality without needing to reflect them off other people's opinions, you must own your awesomeness, now of course I don't mean be a cocky asshole about it but own it lol, even the flaws, flaws are part of the who you are and as long as they aren't red flags or toxicity, sometimes change isn't the answer, for example some may consider someone being very talkative a flaw but it surely won't be to someone that likes to listen. 🧠

[Genie23]

It's news to me that I have awesomeness 😂 I guess you're right. I need to stop focusing on things I lack or change and start noticing good qualities I have.

You read my mind, lol. I thought me talking too much can be a problem. But yeah, I have friends and a partner that are more of listeners and it happens only sometimes when they want to talk as much as I do sometimes. So, when that happens, I switch to being a listener. I just shut up while they tell me stories and show facial expressions instead 😂

[Asker]

Well as long as you manage your flaws and pros properly, you won't necessarily need to change, sometimes the brain braining too much is the problem, you start to overthink stuff lol

[Genie23]

My brain can be very ridiculous. I mean, when I was younger and I got angry one day, I noticed thunder lightning. I was like wait, am I a mutant like Storm from X-Men? 😂😂😂 SMH @ChicoFromThe305

Yeah, will do. Thank you. How about you?

[Genie23]

SMH @ myself. Why did it tag you 😭

[Asker]

I've got no complains, living one day at a time and counting my blessings.

As for your brain, it sounds like you've got far too many wrinkles on your brain, it's creating glitches, I diagnose you with neurowrinkloma, too many brain wrinkles. 💀

[Genie23]

That's nice. Nothing more relaxing than being content/happy with yourself.

Neurowrinkloma? Oh, man. I didn't think I'd get that at such a young age 😂 **Watches Face Off movie. Looks at you. Gives a crazy smile while thinking about secretly replacing my brain with yours ** wait. What am I even saying... Time to drink some chai

[Asker]

I'd never give you my brain, my brain is legendary, yours has too many wrinkles 😂

[Asker]

I don't recall reaching out to you in the abyss of fake accounts asking for your opinion but it seems you felt special enough to comment, now I have to live with the knowledge of your existence unfortunately

[Asker]

Damn that is a long list, I was guessing but it seems I guessed right with this person having a fake account, it seems she pays me a visit everytime with her new accounts, damn weirdo 😂

[Genie23]

@ChicoFromThe305 I think that spammer/troll's comment was directed at me but I chuckled when I read your reply to him. 😂

@Sandman731 You might want to add her two recent accounts to your list. Deereeeee and ElaHop.

I've seen you call him/her out often and delete your account right away. What's going on?

Hi, troll. In case you're reading this... You told me to work on my tolerance, but you deleted your account right after Sandman called you out. You often block me right after leaving comments like this. I don't even know whether I should chuckle or feel bad that I'm not able to give you attention, so you feel the need to do this. 🤔

[Genie23]

Forgot to add- Cheesegirl account

[Genie23]

That user created these first three accounts a couple of days ago (the last one I mentioned was deleted few weeks ago) and I noticed him soon after because he filled the Live Feed section with his short one line opinions aiming to level up. So, he could send unsolicited inappropriate messages to guys once he reaches level 2 (I've been told by some guys). He makes it very obvious it’s him when he posts the same old questions about age gaps or comments on his old threads about significant age gaps, and gets mad at anyone who disagrees with him.

[Aubrey97]

Looks like @sandman731 hit a nerve lol
Are a you a toxic person? ↗

[Genie23]

I can't view his comment as he blocked me soon after he commented under my opinion. He dislikes me since I tried supporting dads he called pyschos because they weren't okay with their barely legal son have a relationship with someone in their 50s. When I tried to respectfully explain why I support fathers on this matter. He got pissed and started calling me sheltered and stuff. I tried to end the debate but he didn't stop posting provoking comments, so I had to block him. Since then he tries to provoke me before blocking me and sometimes he sends me follow request too I don't know why.

[Genie23]

Well, at least he's not commenting on number of my opinions at the same time anymore which he used to do often. That was exhausting. So, I guess I should appreciate him for that. XD

[Aubrey97]

Ohh, I was going to say it's some easy modding points for you to remove a member post. Seems like it would be hard to moderate when the trolls can just block you to prevent moderating.

[Genie23]

@Aubrey97 It is, but I usually ignore him and some other bitter people here who try to provoke me for no reason. I did remove some of his provoking comments in the past when he commented on my personal life. I can hide his troll or repetitive comments before he blocks me. I can still view his opinions and replies in the live feed, just not when I open the thread. I reported him for having duplicate accounts, and the admins deleted those accounts. I don’t report him anymore because I don’t want to message the admins every day. They’d get exhausted if I kept letting them know every time he creates a new account.

[Genie23]

Reported him few weeks ago*

[Aubrey97]

Understandable, though I'd vote for the admins to be exhausted rather than all of us.

[Genie23]

😂 Okay, I'll message them again regarding him if I see him harass other users again. Be careful though.. He reactivated his account so he could see your comments and start harassing you.

Oh and Sandman... I've also seen him dig up one of his old questions and attack people using his 2-3 accounts at the same time. Please report him for duplicate every time you see him instead, so admins can review his accounts.

[Aubrey97]

Gin1903 is here... instantly upon chemistnumberone going inactive lol
As for Sandman, I have never seen him before, no idea

[Aubrey97]

Gin903*

[Aubrey97]

Don't you have to make a whole new email account and then register here too? It must be exhausting to do this every other day

[Genie23]

I was talking about Emil.

[Genie23]

So, relax I was telling you to report his multiple accounts because I know that trolls sends inappropriate messages to only guys. Not women. Also, because he use both of his accounts at the same time to argue with others... to make others feel cornered.

[Aubrey97]

@Sandman731 I thought she was telling me to report you too lol

I report all the accounts too when I notice them. Now I can tell it's him because it's the account's first post and they don't allow responses. Also he spams the whole place with a hundred answers so they can get to level 2 as fast as possible. You'd think they'd mix it up a little to make it less obvious but I guess they don't care.

[Genie23]

@Aubrey97 Sorry, I just saw second last comment. Yeah, I saw that new account too... 😭 It's kind of hard to ignore him. He's all over the live feed. I am so tired of counting his new accounts. I don't even know how he doesn't get tired.

@Sandman731 It's okay. It happens. I should have added an @ symbol. XD At least he left you alone. He doesn't leave me alone.

I'm not sure, but I think admins take a couple of days off every week. The thing is, they won't delete the accounts unless they see proof that it is indeed that person. Sometimes we have to show proof. If we can't, they won't, unless a user harasses other users or posts spam.

[Asker]

Either ways my statement stands 😂

[Aubrey97]

@Sandman731 I reported it despite the fact that "she" blocked me lol

[RandomGirl42]

You're asking a narcissist THAT question? 🤣

Random voted for herself for the "good personality of the year" award

[Asker]

So you are a narcissist? 😂

[RandomGirl42]

Are you kidding? I am like, way too cute, adorable, awesome and wonderful to ever be a narcissist.

[Asker]

I think you are just drunk 😂

[AngryCarl2]

One of my consultants described my personality as "somewhat schizoid".

"Schizoid" refers to a personality disorder characterized by a persistent pattern of emotional detachment, social isolation, and a limited range of emotional expression in social settings. This obviously overlaps with autism, which I'm also diagnosed with.

[Staximus]

I think I'm pretty polarizing. Most people either love me or can't stand me after a while. I'm a bit overbearing at times and have a bad habit of telling people what I know they don't want to hear, but need to hear. I have a lot of friends who I've known for over 30 years, and I would die for those bastards and they know it.

[sage2021]

That's what I've been told.🙂 I think I do. I love to laugh so I'm always kidding around.😂
I love telling my interesting life stories to people and they must like them because I get their full attention while telling them.
In fact my nurse, Leslie always stay way past her hour with me and doesn't want to leave because she loves coming for our visits.

[Asker]

Sounds like a very promising storyline, it seems like you are the main character 😂

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Yes, I do think I have a good personality, but not because I’m perfect.

I just try to be self aware, fair, and honest.

I listen, I communicate, and I don’t play games.

For me, a “good personality” isn’t about being the funniest or the most outgoing, it’s about being someone who’s easy to be around, someone who brings clarity instead of chaos, and someone who learns from their mistakes.

If that counts, then yeah… I’d say I’m doing pretty well.

[Vevv123]

I like my personality very much. I like and I’m very grateful about everything about me. Sometimes there are days I don’t, but I am still very grateful and happy that I am the way I am. 😊 There’s a few cons, but I’m working on those. 😁

[Asker]

That's true, but if they aren't red flags then flaws can sometimes be what helps make your personality unique so careful what you work on 😁

[Vevv123]

They’re not red flags, but sometimes I’m overly optimistic for example. 😬 or sometimes I’m too emotional. 😬

[Asker]

Well I guess working on it isn't a bad thing if you are doing it for yourself

[Vevv123]

I’m a red flag 🥹

[Asker]

No you aren't, you are a burrito 😂🌯

[Vevv123]

You’re right.. I’m a green and red flag all in one 🥺

[Asker]

Both, I never thought of that 😂

[Vevv123]

But I think the red just stands for the spicyness warnings labels 😌 whoever gets burnt ignored the instructions

[Asker]

I guess that's a good way to put it 😌

[Vevv123]

Yea and I know you don’t like reading instructions 👀

[Asker]

I don't, I like winging it sometimes 😁

[Vevv123]

Yeah, you tough it out even if you come out roasted 🤣 *pinches cheek* aww look at you

[Asker]

I'm originally brown, I'm an osito, can't come out roasted if I'm already roasted 😂

[Vevv123]

An osito in flames 🥹 awww I know you’re trying to make the situation better than it sounds.. little tough osito 🥹

[Asker]

Yea cause they you explode and I get caught in the cross fire

[Asker]

🫠🫠

[Vevv123]

But you’re fire proof basically 🥹

[Asker]

Yea cause I turn to cement 😌

[Vevv123]

But lately you fly away 🥹

[Asker]

Yea it's easier to fly away 😂

[Vevv123]

You try but your wings will probably dissolve into ashes 🥹

[Asker]

I don't have wings, I fly away in paper airplanes, I just keep making new ones if needed 😂

[Vevv123]

And then you drift back eventually in your toasty flimsy airplanes 🥹

[Asker]

Yes eventually but my brain waves can control the direction 😂

[Vevv123]

I thought you forgot to respond and I came to check and it was me 😅

[Vevv123]

No it’s very windy on Florida, I doubt you have control 😆

[Asker]

I actually do cause I have powerful brain waves 😌

[Vevv123]

Must be so powerful that they make you disappear for days 🥹 running to safety.

[Asker]

I fly very far away in case of anything Im at a good distance 😌

[Vevv123]

Didn’t you just say you can handle it 🤣 so you watch from a distance 🥹 kind of like examine the situation and step in slowly when you’re ready

[Asker]

Yes exactly, I have to make sure my cement won't fall apart when entering 😁

[itsannalee]

Most people just meet think that i look innocent, soft and calm. But that tbh just because they don’t know me enough.

[Asker]

So you aren't calm? The opposite? Lol

[itsannalee]

You can call me crazy

[Asker]

Okay I'm nicknaming you lokita from now on

[midnightmoon05]

Yes I do I love my bubbly have free spirit personality.

[Asker]

Yep wild spirited 😂

[MemeSupreme]

eehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

im okay. i have my moments

[Asker]

Yea you are a cringy soul at heart tho 😂

[Bricealan]

@ChicoFromThe305 The only way I can answer, is that I have a good group of friends that I associate with, on a regular or semi-regular basis. I assume they enjoy my company.

[LiamJHayden]

I have an outgoing personality. I think it is good but some find it annoying.

[Asker]

Lol fair enough

[beenherebefore]

Depends on the days. When I’m in a good mood I can be really nice and sweet when I’m on a bad day I can be pretty arrogant.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'm the greatest of all time not counting Jesus

[jkreuger95]

i wish it was better. dont know how, im 11 rumplemitzes into my night but i would say average

[douride2]

Most of my friends say I do. So I guess I do.

[Anonymous]

People who know me well say so. But most people don't know me so well.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sometimes. Other times not so much

[Asker]

Valid response lol

[FreyaRed]

I don't get compliments for my personality

[Twodogs0525]

To know me is to love me.

[Anonymous]

To worthwhile people, absolutely.😆

[Asker]

What does that mean 😂

[Opinion Owner]

It means yes I do. But most people are 💩. And it really doesn't matter how good your personality is to a person that is blind to it.

[Alex-Snow]

I have been told that I do.

[Iron_Man]

Yes I do have a good personality, upbeat

[CubaPirate]

I'd like to think so

[SoccerPlayer99]

Nope. I'm an asshole.