Guys, What is something romantic a woman can do for you, that you don't get often?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Being spontaneous, I love when a girl does something for me without me having to ask , it can be sex, gifts , something thoughtful she thought about on her own , I love words of affirmation as well, basically letting me know how much she loves me or adores me and makes me feel wanted and valued . Unfortunately most the girls’ I been with, only did this stuff in the beginning of our relationship but as time went on , it slowly dwindled away , to the point she just expected me to do for her, and she barely did for me, it turned one sided , to the point I walked the other way. I can’t stand selfish girls’ that constantly want , without giving in return , that hold her partner accountable for everything that goes wrong , and acts like she is this perfect angel that does no wrong. My ex started doing this to me towards then end of our marriage , and I knew something was off , because anything I did for her, was no longer good enough , she started pointing out things, to make me look like this horrible person, saying I don’t love her and care about her , comparing me to her girlfriends’ partners’ saying things like her husband or boyfriend does this and that for his partner , but you do not , so many things I wanted to say to her but I just let it go on one ear out the other , because I realized she became a selfish POS person , so I told her don’t let the door hit ya on the ass on your way out

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I like a lot of the answers on here.. Unfortunately (even good non narcissist) a lot of women but not all are conditioned that they don’t have to put any effort into a relationship. The mix of traditionalism and modernism… Take the best of both worlds and you can just sit on your ass demanding things from a relationship without having anything to offer.

Now most women aren’t like that but a lot are. And yes…. There is men with this mindset as well.

With that all being said. Every man and woman is different… So what one person wants is different from another. If there is something I want or need from someone… I can communicate that while also not sounding entitled maybe that’s not something someone can or is willing to offer… meaning either you have to work through that or end the relationship.

All the men saying their women never show any affection…. That’s sad and not normal. As well as people who say their women don’t offer any emotional support. Just basically sit there and bitch while spending their money. And then find out she’s been cheating all along in the marriage. Those are some of the worst type of relationships

AviatorTom · Answer

A back rub. At the end of the day, I often have a sore back. A back rub feels great but it doesn't happen often. I often rub her shoulders and neck and feet, which she enjoys.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I will answer this question but back story will provide insight into the why to my answer. Sorry if you don't care about any of this lol

I want to say this right because if you read this and I come off like a jerk, then I didn't say it right.

The reasons I'm single right now is because at my age are due to many things. When I go on dates, I notice like 80% are sniffing me out for how much money I have and it just makes me sad. It's hard to articulate because I'm not saying these women are bad intentioned, or want to make this an all women are... whatever stupid thing men complain about. It's just something I've noticed and may be because I'm not 21 anymore. Also, many people have baggage at this age and can't let go of it for some very good reasons and bad. To shorten this up it's why I haven't been in a relationship in a while.

So knowing this background, the most romantic thing a woman can do for me that I don't get often is offer their unconditional love for me because they love me as a person not for what they can get out of me. This isn't a flower on a special day. Romantic to me is the commitment someone gives you every day, regardless of how imperfect that day is. I know I'll find someone and I'm not bitter at women at all.

I get men suck too, but I'm not one of them. I have a lot of love to offer and energy lol. I am healthy young looking and want to enjoy whatever health and youth (subjective at 46 right lol) I have to share with someone else that just wants to be with me because they love me and I love them.

So romantic for me that I don't get often is the commitment that it isn't just romance on Valentine's Day or what fancy car I can buy you. Wake up with me and let's tackle the world together.

Sorry for the long winded answer but it really resonated with me and I had to think it through to get to my answer.

rebelsunshine · Answer

Ask me to reserve a day in my calendar that fits her schedule as well as mine. Don't tell me what we'll do together on that day, just that it'll be things we both like.

Then get creative and plan out an entire day we can spend together and we'll both remember. Be adventurous and surprise me. Remind me of how we first met, how we first kissed, and how we first made love. Take the lead when the day comes and make most of the decisions for us. Get me to remember all the reasons I love you. Then look into my eyes and tell me you love me.

OneViewpoint · Answer

It's not some big romantic gesture and it requires zero money.

Initiate a cuddle once in a while.
Say thank you once in a while.
Show me some passion in a kiss.
Get playful and flirty once in a while.
Just keep it fresh.

That's pretty much all most men need to be happy.

nothingtosee · Answer

Something I really enjoy having done for me, and I love doing for a woman is, when a woman is in the shower, I will take her towel and put in the dryer, on high. Just as she's turning off the water, she calls out, "Towel service, please!". At that moment I will fetch her towel and, with her back to me, I will place that very HOT towel on her back.

Nothing better than having a hot towel wrapped around you just as you shut off the water in the shower.

aaron13547 · Answer

When i have a bad day I try reallllllly freaking hard not to let it show. When she can still tell and says something about it. Or talks to me about it. Asks me how I am. Or just reminds me that my thoughts and emotions matter to. That is the best for me.

I think all men sacrifice the way they emotional feel and think to he able to do tough things. When my special lady makes me remember I matter to her more then I realize, its the best.

abc3643 · Answer

ANY AFFECTION. ANY SINGLE GODDAMN THING. My wife would rather bathe in COVID-19 virus than show me affection.

serious · Answer

Yes there are many things but I cannot answer this because I have always been single.

jtg13 · Answer

A massage. Feet, hands, shoulders, scalp doesn't matter.

SixFootSexy · Answer

I don't know, with physical touch... a loving massage can go a loooong way.

Staximus · Answer

Just want me around, and not for what I can do for her

YourExLover69 · Answer

A sudden hug from behind. Initiating Passionate lip kiss. Being playful and flirty sometimes.

gottogames313gotag · Answer

when she says she loves me it makes me wanna die inside in a good way

DavyJ · Answer

My ex used to bake the most amazing Apple Crumbles with about 1/2 a ton of Cinnamon in them. Absolute culinary bliss.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Make me a home cooked dinner with some candles, and maybe some hot fun for dessert!

Anonymous · Answer

Romantic? 💩, I'd settle for her just being treated like a choice rather than an option.😆 anything romantic would just be a bonus.😆

Likes2drive · Answer

Something spontaneous like just a nice hug and kiss for no reason

Siajanua2027 · Answer

Ask ME how I am instead of constantly talk about herself.

Nik1hil · Answer

Raise our Kids correctly and Unbiased

bowenw · Answer

Weekend getaway to a resort.

ABC1x1x · Answer

Anything. Literally anything.

u7u7u7u7 · Answer

Talk positive about me in my absence.

Anonymous · Answer

First Amendment?

CubaPirate · Answer

A back massage

Anonymous · Answer

She can wrestle me down on the bed ;)

Anonymous · Answer

Oh I think she's seducing me in the woods

RavVid · Answer

Cook or bake.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Fuck me.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Just be there for me

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Swallow

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