Guys, What's the most romantic thing a women has done for you?

[JC1981]

It's widely known most women love abit of romance. But what about men? It seems to be overlooked by society that men have a need for this also. So guys, what is the most romantic thing a women has done, or could do for you? And how did it, or would it make you feel?

[VinnyMac]

My Fiancèe gave me a book that she had made online and it listed all the reasons that she loved me with cute little stick figures (I think it was called Loving You 101)

To my regret we broke up for a few weeks and we have a 4 year old son together. I was emotionally broken and I took my frustrations out on the book. What I did was something I can never undo and some of my actions will always bother me. We'd been together for over 8 years and we have a 4 year son together. I think I was most frustrated about how I would remain a part of his life because she had plans about moving away that I could not agree with her on.

She had broken up with me a couple days before my Birthday, which triggered me big time because she had cheated on me 4 times in the past. One of those times was just before Father's day and it was with her bestfriend and her bestfriend's boyfriend (threesome) and not long after a foursome with her bestfriend, her girlfriend again, a guy her girlfriend was cheating on her boyfriend with and another guy. It's still angers me and is something I wish had not happened. I would've got over it quicker if it was her and another girl, but for some reason another guy was something that drove me even crazier. That probably doesn't necessarily make sense, but that's how I felt at the time. Perhaps it was secretly because I wanted to be with more than one girl as well 😳 . We both probably sound like there's a lot of drama and have toxic relationships.

On a happier note we've got back together now and are trying to work on our relationship. After being together for Our four year old son is the most important part of our lives and families and we continue to try to be good parents to him. Seeing as I had destroyed the old book for Valentine's this year she made me another. It's a little different, but has a new beginning.

It's strange sometimes how a most romantic gesture may also bring you great pain at some point, but there's sometimes a way for things to come full circle and begin again.
(Sorry for massively overcharging, buy that's what I thought of).

[HighlyVolatile]

Since COVID I haven't been able to do this, but before COVID I went on overseas business trips to the US around 4-5 times a year to see all my colleagues and work with them face-to-face. I've been doing that since my 20s.

Since the time I first started dating my wife, she'd show up at Narita airport each time I came back from the US to Japan. That's like a 2-hour train trip for her and I told her she doesn't have to come. Yet she always insisted. She has kept that up for over 10 years. She never missed a single time I returned.

So I always saw her when I came out of baggage claim waiting for me and smiling, and she'd run and jump and give me a hug while I drop all my baggage. Then we'd have and kiss in the airport.

None of my exes in the past showed up to meet me like this even once. Yet my wife was always there every single time.

[HighlyVolatile]

* Then we'd [/hug] and kiss in the airport.

[HighlyVolatile]

That's when I started to know after the first few times she did it that she was the one. She was exceptional from all my exes. I could count on her to be there eagerly waiting for me to arrive home every single time.

[HighlyVolatile]

And it's not like she lacks a life. I could understand a needy type of woman doing this. She's not like that at all. She has many friends, her own passions, a great job as a book editor and publisher. Yet she always took time away from those things to meet me at the airport.

[JC1981]

Naawwww that's beautiful. Sounds like your a lucky man 🙂

[HighlyVolatile]

I'm extremely lucky! Cheers!

If you are looking for ideas though, I'm not sure if all other guys are like me, but "romantic" to me is more "warm" than "hot" and more mundane than extravagant. It's the little things my wife has done that make me reflect back with the deepest sentiment.

I think if you ask my wife the same question, she would list the more extravagant things I've done. For example, I won her over by jamming an emergency stop button on an elevator and kissing her. She likes those big and extravagant things, "movie moments".

Yet for me, it's more in the mundane things.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Me and the Mrs are talking about it right now. The thing is! Society does not expect a woman to do romantic things for her man. In our relationship we are both romantic and we have done it for each other but she didn't do as many times i did and still do, because of the habit where the man does it for his woman. I am not comparing nor complaining, but this is a nice take on the subject.

[HighValue]

Someone I wasn't involved with but just worked with paid attention to things I said over time and when I was leaving to switch careers she got me a gift bag that contained different types of food I like and some supplies that would be useful for my new job.

I don't know if that counts.

[Juxtapose]

Uhhh.. women are very unromantic in my experience. They gave been takers and do almost nothing to make me feel appreciated or wanted.

I think my friends have actually done things that could be considered romantic more so than anything a lover has done for me lol.

[Juxtapose]

*have been

[exitseven]

She drove 300 miles to come and take care of me when I had a bad case of the flu.

[Phoenix98]

One girl wrote me a poem one time but beyond that nothing.

[Northernlights25]

One girlfriend comissioned a silver cross to be made for me. Inlaid with small roses!

[Anonymous]

Lol women doing something romantic for me 🤣🤣🤣. I needed that laugh today. TY!

[MrCommodore]

You looking for ideas for your male friend?

[JC1981]

I'm just curious, always good to have inside information for future opportunities.

[MrCommodore]

Very true👍

[JC1981]

Got any insight for me? 🙂

[MrCommodore]

Yes, find out what he is most into, his specific passions like football or music band or Star Wars. Then get tickets for an event related to it, book a hotel, dinner etc too.

[MCheetah]

Nothing comes to mind.