How do I end first date?

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Plan is to go to a museum for our first date, haven’t been on many. I’m excited to have a good time to get to know her, but I also wanna know when the date should end or when we should exit the museum. And once we do leave, do I ask if she wants to get food or coffee? Or just end it there?

Bitter_Sweet94 · Accepted Answer

I’d end a first date when the energy feels naturally complete.

You don’t need to force it or drag it out.

After the museum, walk out with her and read the moment.

If the vibe is still warm, you can offer something light like, “Do you want to grab a coffee before we head out?”

Keep it soft, no pressure.

If she seems tired, checked out, or the conversation slows, then just close it gracefully “I had a really good time today.

Let’s talk again soon.”

A first date doesn’t need to be long to be meaningful.

It just needs to end on the right note.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Just say, you have chores to do or you need to prepare for an event later in the week. Normal people will not ask you for more info, like what chores, what event etc…

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Go with the flow…. Really. Just enjoy your time if things seem too forced or awkward that’s a good time to say hey really nice meeting you… and just be honest later that you appreciate being with her but don’t see a relationship going anywhere. Maybe you could try another date another time somewhere else to see if it goes better.

With that being said. Maybe it goes great…. Okay. Eventually you’ll both see all you want to see and you can offer going somewhere else.

Alex-Snow · Accepted Answer

I would ask her to grab a cup of coffee or go for a short walk and ask her what her schedule is for the rest of the day/week. Then if things are going well ask her if she is interested in another date.

Anonymous · Answer

On my first date with my boyfriend we flew to another state, had dinner in the kitchen of a restaurant, had sex the rest of the night and spent the next day together, and we're still together now.

slatyb · Answer

If it went well, then invite her to whatever you want at the time. If you are hungry, invite her to join you for dinner or whatever.

Staximus · Answer

The date should end when you two want to leave the museum, and yes you should ask to go eat after if the date goes well

chickychickyparmparm · Answer

play it by ear. IF you're both having fun then ask if she wants to extend the date.

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