Why does my boyfriend not want to come home and will go see his girl friend at lunch?

[Cheridurston]

[SueShe]

Perhaps that the distance from his work to your home is too big for him to make it on time and to spend time. Perhaps that he has his lunch box with him and that it is easier for him to visit his female friend. Perhaps that he has a liking for that girl. Perhaps he found a valid excuse to see her during his lunch time. Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps...

There are so many possible reasons why someone would prefer to see someone else than their girlfriends. Your best option is to ask him directly because only he can give you a valid answer.

[Nikki1989]

He is actively prioritizing another woman and avoiding the shared space he has with you. He is also prioritizing this escape over the commitment to you. You deserve a partner who is excited to come home to you, not one who is constantly looking for excuses to be away.

[Summeroflove]

Ask him? Maybe he’s busy or wants something fast. How long does it take to come home?

[jazzy34]

Maybe he has other things to do. Make your life more than just about him. Find other hobbies.

[Zionne]

Maybe he's not that interested in you. Boys will show you how they truly feel. So observe his actions and not by what he's saying

[Alex-Snow]

Time to dump him asap.