When someone is busy while trying to set up a date?

[Anonymous]

I feel like most women are always going to say this, as some kind of test or out of uneasiness to actually come through and meet you. What has been your most successful way of navigating this situation?

It would be great if they just communicated like grown adults and said, “well this day won’t work but these other days would!” Is it really so hard? Apparently it is.

[melanieeeB]

It's not that hard. Either they do come your way, like in your text or they don't.
When I used to date, I didn't entertain that shit, either the guy knew he wanted to meet up or he didn't. Sometimes of course maybe they have to look at their work schedule and can only tell you a few days later but in that case, that should be communicated

[slatyb]

there is only "yes" and "no". Every response that is not "yes" is "no". "I'm busy" and every variation of that is a "no". If a woman is interested, she will find time for you.

You know what would be great? If men would learn to understand common social conventions.

[Nikki1989]

“It would be great if they just communicated like grown adults.”

And here you are posting as an anon. Well, that shot your cred now, didn't it?