I told her I understand and wouldn't see her anymore, but she said no, she she's not "breaking up" with me or trying to let me down easy, and that she really does like me a lot but she just has too much on her plate right now.
I told her if she wants to make it work we definitely can, and that people make time for what they want. That made her a bit upset and she protested that when has free time she calls me before anyone else and she is really trying hard, she just had to go to the doctor twice last week (which she didn't tell me until now) and she started to cry. After the conversation was over she gave me the biggest hug she ever has and wouldn't let me go.
Ladies, have you ever been too busy for a guyyou really like, as in saying no for 2+ weeks for scheduling a date? Is she feeling guilty and just trying to "be nice". Or maybe she's scared and using busy as an excuse? She has had multiple guys cheat on her, including a guy she was engaged to. Can someone really be to busy to sschedule a daye with someone if they really do like them?
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In all honesty she might just have a lot going on in her life, however if you truly like someone you can never be too busy to see or talk to them but it sounds like she does talk to you so she is probably telling the truth and you just need to understand her situation and try to help her as much as possible. Plus if you don't see someone one a normal basis then when you do see eachother even just for a small amount of time. Those are more precious then if you saw eachother all the time. So find joy in the smallest things.