I have been seeing this woman for 2 months and I really like her and she says she really likes me. However last week we went out and at the end of the night she said she is just too busy for a relationship right now.
I told her I understand and wouldn't see her anymore, but she said no, she she's not "breaking up" with me or trying to let me down easy, and that she really does like me a lot but she just has too much on her plate right now.
I told her if she wants to make it work we definitely can, and that people make time for what they want. That made her a bit upset and she protested that when has free time she calls me before anyone else and she is really trying hard, she just had to go to the doctor twice last week (which she didn't tell me until now) and she started to cry. After the conversation was over she gave me the biggest hug she ever has and wouldn't let me go.
Ladies, have you ever been too busy for a guyyou really like, as in saying no for 2+ weeks for scheduling a date? Is she feeling guilty and just trying to "be nice". Or maybe she's scared and using busy as an excuse? She has had multiple guys cheat on her, including a guy she was engaged to. Can someone really be to busy to sschedule a daye with someone if they really do like them?
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Yes, definitely. Listen to what she's saying she is telling the truth. If you want to be with her, stop pressuring her, give her that bit of space and trust her. It sounds like she has a lot on her plate. You don't even know what she is going to the doctors for. She probably has a lot to deal with0