I'm unable to form a relationship. I flirt and date date but I've realized I only care about sex and can't form any connection. What's wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

My longest relationship was my first in 2018, lasted three months. Since then, I had only shortl ived flings, self sabotaged potential relationships and wished a girl who called me "my little teddy bear" death.

[beefcakebradybatson]

You have to honestly assess yourself as a man and potential partner and strive to improve and mature, or women will soon see you as toxic and flee any possible long-term tie-up with you, boy.

[Asker]

I refuse to

[beefcakebradybatson]

Why?

[Asker]

Beacuse I'm not good enough for this

[beefcakebradybatson]

Yes, you are.

[Asker]

You don't know me. If I say I'm no good then I'm no good.

[In_Trance]

You can most likely answer your own question better than anyone on here can.
If you really want to change get a therapist and work hard

[Asker]

I'm afraid that I've already accepted who I'm

[In_Trance]

So then...

[CherryLove007]

Get a doll and stop abusing females for fun times. :0 Man up and get a decent hobby.

[Asker]

Why should I listen to you?

[CherryLove007]

you posted foolio... get back in the womb to do some more cooking immature boy toy

[Asker]

Make me

[CherryLove007]

you want a legit answer? You are soul less... get a relationship therapist.

[Asker]

I don't have money for that

[CherryLove007]

I'm not your mamma thank GOOOOOOOOD

[Asker]

I don't need a mother

[CherryLove007]

Human's need community, elders for learning, and support. Or you will be sick.

[Asker]

I'm an adult and my mother is doing well. I have no longer a need for her.

[CherryLove007]

well why are you too scared to ask your own mother? who possible knows you better than most anyone? Adults get professional help or go to an elder for wisdom.

[Asker]

My mother doesn't even know my favorite color

[Ninania]

Maybe you're just aromantic.

[Asker]

Funny thing is there was ONE girl I can confidently say I had romantic feelings for.
I've never meet her in person though

[Ninania]

It's a spectrum, just like some asexuals can experience sexual desire, without it being a constant or frequent experience.

[Asker]

I understand, thank you for your help.

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s wrong? You failed to bond with your parents and hold onto resentment against them

[Asker]

What's my parents have to do with this?

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m not a therapist. Pay for one and learn the answer to that question. Complain you have no money to pay for one and remain lonely.

[Asker]

I'll rather just hang myself than to go the shrink

[BarryLiverstone]

Stop breaking gag rules

[Asker]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Relationship need discipline

[Asker]

Care to elaborate?

[jahaims]

Intimacy disorder