Have you have any dating fears? If so, what are they?

[HawkPerception]

Ex. "They'll get bored of me," "They'll cheat"

[Simslover92]

That they will regret choosing me because I have some flaws that I'm dealing with. Being anxious attachment style is one of them, but also being impatient and impulsive are the others. I have wanted to speed things up in my past relationship and I'm worried that may continue in my next relationship, but I have been working on that through therapy and introspection to become more secure and centered.

[HawkPerception]

Ha, I also have an anxious attachment style 😂 Not proud of it 😂

[Simslover92]

Haha yeah me neither.

[On_cloud_wine]

They won’t like my body

[HawkPerception]

The fact that you have that fear alone shows that you likely have a decent body because you actually care about your appearance. No man will think that's a bad quality in a girl

[On_cloud_wine]

There’s some truth in there, sir

[DishLady]

Yeah... I don't like getting used to having someone around then suddenly POOF.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Getting cheated on.

That they'll like me on the surface, and then when I get closer to then, they realize how fucked up I am or that I'm not great, or too broken, and they'll leave.

Getting abused, or that they slowly ends up in a toxic relationship.

That it turns out I'm the one hurting him.

Being chosen as a "last resort"/ second option, that they settle because hey, I'm better than nothing...

Yeah, those are some of my fears

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Little_Bumblebee or growing out of love - or hell, that new fresh face on the block turned out to be more my type - but I'm married 💍 😭😢 I imagine how many times that life story plays out - some folks get hitched at 20 and then lament the hotter folks they see by 30 👀.
Some wonder 🤔 is all.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Little_Bumblebee they lament being taken too soon or they lament being still single at 30 or even divorced / broken up at 30.
Time you evil thing you Time ahaha channelling that star trek movie 'time is the enemy' lol 😆

[VioletHaze]

That they'll find me too intense.

But then again, the right person would enjoy that about me, so I see it as a good way to weed out the ones who wouldn't be happy with me anyway.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@VioletHaze if he doesn't like violet, that's already a tough start - lol a cold start - "I'm more of a rose guy" 🌹 than a violet 🟣 guy ; and that's all she wrote when she said 'i think we shouldn't go on a second date'

😋

[mysteriousNicholas]

@VioletHaze did you like my Agatha Christie ref there and my use of violet?

[queenofcardio]

Giving my all to someone and him screwing me over

[HawkPerception]

Well we all have to take a leap of faith in relationships or we'll never be able to love wholeheartedly. You shouldn't be scared to love just because you're afraid to get hurt. If they hurt you, then they aren't the one for you, simple as that.

[queenofcardio]

I'm not scared of love , it's just a fear I randomly think about. It does not hold me back.

[HawkPerception]

Glad to hear 😊

[queenofcardio]

What's your fear

[HawkPerception]

Well other than the obvious fear of losing my loved ones, which I'm sure most people have... I have thalassophobia and venom or being poisoned.

I can swim just fine. I grew up around water and am pretty comfortable in the ocean and deep water. But the deep water I'm talking about is the middle of the ocean where you have no clue what's under you. There are so many things that could maul you in a second

[mysteriousNicholas]

@HawkPerception I've got one

On short notice lol

"We didn't see eye to eye on a lot things, it turned out"

Despite the weird way for some reason I felt like our eyes often met eye to eye , - or hell, I'm that ugly 🥁 📳

Punch line ✊ 👊

[mysteriousNicholas]

@HawkPerception I'd foresee that being the worse - all hot and lustful - yet the women are just few apart in being more than a pretty eye candy ; hell, it's hard to know which is worse. Lots in common, in the best ways - and its an ugly relationship (looks not arguments) or it's a hot relationship with nothing to last the distance (all looks spark and no common ground except maybe a burger) 🍔 get it? People can have so much and never does 50 50 perfection appear 👀😁😅

[mysteriousNicholas]

So much one sided 🙃

[TsundereMatrix]

As someone said, that they regret choosing me but for me I’m also worried that I’ll get bored of them eventually.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Or vice versa 🤪

[mysteriousNicholas]

@TsundereMatrix sometimes it says something about couples with moderate age gaps - they're either dumber or smarter - or just as.

[ABC1x1x]

I dont have any fears. At all. cool as a cucumber. I was in war and a grenade landed at my feet. I just kept killing. It was a dud. My Sgt asked what I was thinking when I saw it. I wasn't thinking anything at all. I knew I couldn't tel him that so I just said something gay like "my family". I want thinking anything at all.

[Alxve]

My biggest fear is being replaced by some other guy. And thats why I am easy insecure of guys she is hanging with. I am working on improvements but yes.
I really need someone who would reassure me.
I had a abusive relationship, so my fear are more improved.
But yes
1. Being replaced
2. Being cheated on
3. Lies
4. Abuse
5. Breakup..

[mysteriousNicholas]

Or people change after date 4 😄

[linka_pat307]

Yeah... like being cheated on or someone being rather demanding of me

[Zionne]

Thinking they might kill me just like in the documentaries lol

[TallLoney]

Dating it self. As a guy who's never been in a relationship and laughed for just trying to talk to women. I would honestly love to find someone but always feel like ill just be hurt and alone.

[guesswhereivebeen]

That I’ll find out she’s got a dick

[Raydergman26]

They would leave me at the church alone

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Raydergman26 and for all I know, it ain't cheap either to book out the church 💒
God needs his bills paid too it seems.
The funniest side note would be "pssst Ray - she wasn't good for you anyway ; but it's God here, don't forget to tip on the way out for the plate" 😋😅 ahh the good lord moving in money ways 🙃

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Raydergman26 but you raise a valid point - chapels and churches - clergy don't come cheap 😁

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Raydergman26 'pssst Ray, god again - see, there's a hotter honey over there on pew number X, back left - 💗 I told ya I'd look out for ya" - thank me later Ray
Ah yes, the good lord 😇 always being a homie looking out for his homie's 😈
Thanks for humouring my short comedic