Do you find it sweet/ pleasant when a guy holds your hand on a first date?

[Pearl222]

[ohsheeT]

I am a very spontaneous person. I also like to touch hold

So I mean, no matter what we're doing in the middle of anything, I would always reach over and grab her hand or hold her.\n Because I like that bond, those moments Just out of the blue and then pull her close into me or something or walking across the street, grab ahold of her hand just, I mean, just anything ever if it was needed, it's going to be done and if I wanted to do it, it's going to be done just not to do it. Sometimes. Just because I like that touch that feeling

[ohsheeT]

Thank you Pearl222

[Twodogs0525]

I remember my first date with my wife. We were leaving the restaurant we ate at and we're gonna walk to a bar. As we were walking, she grabbed my hand and was holding it. I shit you not, I got hard! It was unexpected and her hand was so soft.

[Pearl222]

Haha, that’s cute and funny. Yeah, we were also walking out and stepping on an escalator when he did that and continued for some time after.

[Twodogs0525]

That's how I knew the date must be going well.

[AviatorTom]

I've dated women who liked holding hands on a first date, and those who didn't want to be touched. It depends on the woman.

[Summeroflove]

It can be. But tread carefully

[Lliam]

I love it when a woman I like slips her little hand trustingly into mine on a first date. It means that she likes being with me and I make her feel safe and secure. It also signals that she is comfortable with physical touch. It makes me feel warm and tingly.
It's a really good sign.

[Zionne]

Yes, it can feel sweet and comforting, it’s a small, physical way to show interest and connection without being overwhelming. Timing and mutual comfort matter more than the gesture itself.

[Zack-Bann]

I think hand holding can’t just be randomly triggered


It has to be a natural escalation of romantic tension throughout the date

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Yes, if it feels natural and respectful.

A simple gesture like hand holding can be sweet without being over the top, it’s more about the intention than the act itself.

[MemeSupreme]

no i'll bite them in the hand and draw blood



i actually just dont like touch that much especially with people i just met lol so no its one of the things that i overthink about before a first date

[Anonymous]

No, I prefer when a girl holds my hand on a first date.

(but it never actually happened).

[mysteriousNicholas]

@pearl222 I'd say some women do, others maybe not so keen.

Hell, some women may even like hand in hand 👌 ✋ during more intimate moments later on at their place, shrug 🛏️ 😏😅

😝

[mysteriousNicholas]

@pearl222 some couples may or some women may find it "too attention seeking" - especially if they're past say 30s or 40s 'when it may seem more uncool than cute'

[NathanDavis]

I mostly find it sweaty... during the summers in Texas

but, it might be much nicer in California or NY though...

[mysteriousNicholas]

@NathanDavis what a fantastic answer

[NathanDavis]

I'll be here all weekend... lol

[Anonymous]

On our first date I held my (now) wife's hand as we crossed a busy street. She told me much later that she really liked that I did that.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I do i think it's sweet

[whiskeyontherocks]

Never been on a date with a man so not sure. Definitely would be pretty awkward.

[Pearl222]

lol that’s funny 😂😂

[Jennz6]

It’s sweet and charming 💕💯

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[ABC1x1x]

Im a guy. I find it gay

[sage2021]

Yes! Definitely!

[Bloodparadise]

Depends on the kind of guy I'm dating

[Raydergman26]

Yes I find it sweet

[MaTa93]

It is sweet.