Do I have flawed logic when it comes to asking women out?

[Anonymous]

I won't go into specifics here, but there's this one lady at my store that I think may be interested and wants me to ask her out. A female friend of mine thinks she would say yes if I asked, but that's another story. If those things she did never happened, I probably wouldn't have considered asking her out at all if I'm being honest. I have nothing against this woman, but I'm not actively looking for a relationship right now. However, if the right one comes along, maybe. That being said, I've had times in the past where I'd wait until I got some hints from a woman to even start considering asking them out. Is that a flawed way to look at it?

[Anonymous]

No. Most women like the "compliment" of being asked out whether they're interested or not. I think it's always best to be all-in or all-out when it comes to women. But NEVER tip your hand! Until you want to make your intentions clear.

If you learn anything from dating learn this. Her feelings (unless you're dating) are NOT you responsibility. I promise you your feelings will NOT be to her. Unfortunately dating is war. You have to treat it as such. Sometimes you're attacking, sometimes you're defending, sometimes you're misleading.

[Anonymous]

I don’t give any hints or signs that I’m interested in a guy or would say yes to going out with him. Lots of women don’t.

[Anonymous]

This must be a busy store.