Does he think im not interested or its a manipulative tactic?

[Anonymous]

So, the guy was texting and pursuing me for around half a year, then we met. and he on a date asked to meet tomorrow for a second date, i said maybe. and thought he would initiate futher. but he didn't. i vaguelly responded like will see. the we stopped comunicating for a month, liked each other stories, then he texted again and asked to meet. i wasn't eager as well cause a lot of time has passed.

[Noredcarpet]

I honestly think you are both kind of doing this the wrong way. Wait 6 months and then see each other? What is that? He suggests tomorrow you say maybe, then the two of you go around the bush for the rest of the time. Either of you have the balls to say one or the other, Im sorry. He is so vaque I can not say if he thinks this or that of you, or if he is manipulating.

[Asker]

should i say something?

[Noredcarpet]

If I was the one who went maybe, like you did, I would come up with a new date, time, and see if he is able to, wants to. He has already asked. So yes, I would ask. You can only get no, and then you'll know.

[Alex-Snow]

He may be confused or do you think he has someone else in his life also?

[Anonymous]

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