Why do these chicks match you online, just to turn around and unmatch you?

[Anonymous]

Drives me nuts. y'all are insane. Plain and simple.

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5 mo

Also why are they all out here “still figuring it out”? Find a good guy. Pick that good guy. Remove yourself from the dating market. Have all the fun you’re looking for with good guy. And be happy. Simple.

There. I just figured it out for you.

[DishLady]

Wow. Baggage to the hilt even before you start the race.

Perhaps stop using apps since you are either misusing them or (rather obviously) have something on your profile that attracts the clicks but turns off the chicks.

[HollyK21]

It’s not nuts for a woman to change her mind. This is more about your frustration with singleness than it is about the dating apps, which you should probably get off of by the way.

[Asker]

Yes because heaven forbid I express a little bit of frustration, because it means I think “ALL women are bad and that I’m just the worst man in existence and don’t deserve anything”

[HollyK21]

Please, you air your grievances on this site often. Enough with the dramatics, it doesn’t help your situation.

[Asker]

Wtf are you talking about

[HollyK21]

You think anonymity spares you but it doesn’t. You complain about women on this site often. We don’t have to argue about it.

[Asker]

Alrighty then whatever you say.

[Spencer10]

Well the fact you call them "chicks" to start is a clear red flag for me. I think its time to look in the mirror before you start condemning women for your lack of success.

[Asker]

lol Really bro?

[Finchie40]

Because they are picky and have a lot to choose from

[CherryLove007]

uhhh why are you doing the definition of insanity? Your online and esp on a match site that play's games.

[Asker]

Men and women do not have even close to the same experiences with dating and cannot be compared.

[CherryLove007]

I can’t help noticing the similarities between dating apps and video games.
With dating apps, like in video games, we use our thumbs to swipe left, right, up and down like we’re using a game controller. The repetitive motion of it becomes addicting.

With each swipe, we’re wondering who is next in line before considering the person currently on the screen. We forget the face we’re swiping on exists beyond our smartphone and that the name below that face is the name of a real person with a family, job and story to tell. Instead of stopping for a moment to consider this, we keep playing the game.
And who wins the game of the dating app?
Whoever cares the least.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Either they do what I heard many men do, swipe right to everything, sorting after getting the matches.

Or, accidentally swiped right - or a friend swiped for them or something.

[RxR0954]

Probably because they sensed you’d be one of those guys who would start raging over women after rejection. Good for them.

[Drumlin2001]

They have tem tines more matches than you, they play games because they can

[Nikki1989]

People that use dating apps are as sharp as a sackful of soup.

[Anonymous]

They get on the apps when they're drunk, then cancel everything when they're sober. Do yourself a favor, bro. Get an friends with benefits and trade her a place to stay in your house for sex and cleaning up. You'll come out way ahead.

[MikeMcMansion]

They find a better profile, some guy think is better, thats it.

[Asker]

So they just full on remove all their other options?

[MikeMcMansion]

Well they can only talk to so many guys at one time on all their social media and dating apps, and only date one guy at a set particular time (usually). So yeah, its not that complicated, if you don't look like a model an athlete or a professional wealthy man with a decent profile, just move on. Dont waste your time on those apps unless you are willing to date women with a couple kids already or way overweight women.

[MikeMcMansion]

I just saw that “figuring it out” thing! LMAO bro it sounds like it hasn’t change one bit in the last 6 years! Its a fucking disaster out there

[MikeMcMansion]

I lied and put 6”1 I figured that women just figured that every guy adds an inch on those dating apps anyways. And it unlocked a ton more dates, fucking ridiculous

[Anonymous]

I think they do mass right swipes and then pick and choose when matched with someone or if the guy messages them

[Anonymous]

Just stop with the dating apps then. They are an atrocious way to meet people.

[BigBang1001]

Women's brains work differently than ours... infact they don't work at sll

[beenherebefore]

Maybe they didn't like the interaction.

[Asker]

On a text app? How do they expect it to go? You don’t even know how they are in person?

[Asker]

Not to mention, half the time you don’t even get to get a word in at all. They’re gone before you even have a min to reply.

[Anonymous]

They easily change their mind.

[cleo21360]

Guys do this ish.

[Anonymous]

Find someone who is vetting you.

[Alex-Snow]

Shit happens.