Ladies is it possible for you to start a conversation with a man without asking him "what do you do for a living"?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

10 years ago when I used Tinder like a sucker ass simp I felt like going on a rampage numerous of times because literally all the women I matched with would always ask me "what do you do for a living?"

I always found this as a red flag because this clearly means that you are more interested in what the man does for a living and his income in general.

this type of questions says more about you than the man you are asking it to.

[Hardon-Collider]

TLDR: in my opinion, TBH, POV, NGL, FR, FWIW, FYI, stupid vocabulary like "red flag on a dating app" is something you should reflect on.

What's next, complaining that poop stinks? ㅤ

https://www.youtube.com/embed/bH7YrDKb1Z0

[Sevenpointfive]

that's why the unemployment office is a popular pickup scene for men. it's cool because you don't have to ask. but even then she'll ask you what you've done in the past or plan on doing in the future. your money potential is important to them because it lets them know how hard they need to work in life if they choose to be with you.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

hot damn, you just gave me an idea! there is a job fair here in my city next week

[Sevenpointfive]

got get em tiger! and let us know what happens.

[itsannalee]

I never asked people what they do, what their job. etc

[Zack-Bann]

What’s wrong with that question?
Are you ashamed of what you do?


She’s trying to get to know you and the job you do for 40 hours a weeks is a major part of your life


Jumping to the conclusion that she’s just gold digging is seeing the glass half empty


And the only one who loses is you

[BonzoInBitburg]

When I added "Self Employed Business Owner" on my online dating profile, everything changed and I was going out 3 nights a week with people who looked nothing like their pics.

[jamesgoldman]

I had mine as 'trader' couple of conversations and that was it in the year I bothered with them

[DonaldDarko]

It's part of the job interview.