Ladies, do you Initiate phone calls with a guy you are talking to? or do you wait for him to?

[Anonymous]

[JosyJosy]

Of course I do. We're together now for almost three years, so it's safe to say that it worked. Showing interest in someone to me equals to making a move. If you make it clear to him that you want to talk or go out on a date by initiating with it, you can't be more loud and clear. And if he likes you back, and he's comfortable around you, he's going to initiate back. Because he likes you, and he now knows that you really like spending time with him.

[DizzyDesii]

I love to talk so yes i wouldn't mind initiating. But not everyone is brave enough to have a phono conversation. Its all good because i’d talk their ear off anyways

[Guy13]

I have had only once a lady initiate a phone call with me. She always expects me to pursue them... It is life.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 that's how I was raised is to wait for the guy to pursue the girl. Not that it mattered because I'm not exactly what men call pretty. :/

[Guy13]

@Akam93 Yeah but it is also nice when someone takes the front end guessing and insecurity out of the equation.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 I mean now I'm a little more different cause I'm older I dont have time to fuck around. That's why when i tell a guy i like them i just tell him and see what they say.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 Good morning also. :) ☕

[Guy13]

@Akam93 Straightforward approach is good too and good morning.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 I think it's best to be honest with yourself even if your feelings get hurt. :)

[Guy13]

@Akam93 Yeah, it seems like that's the way to do tings!

[kerrylouise]

I have no issue picking up the phone and calling. If I feel like doing that, I just do it. Why overthink?

[Amy10223]

I sometimes call. He doesn't mind at all. Why wait? Unless it's too frequent--like every day or every 2 or 3 days, it shouldn't be a problem.

[Nikki1989]

I don't use my phone for anything besides work.

[Asker]

You’re on this app though lol

[Anemone978]

Wait for him to do it unless we are really close

[AsaKyo]

When I first begin speaking to them, I let them initiate the calls, but after awhile of knowing the person, I'll start initiating calls

[alcorriher]

depends on the guy & what im calling about.

[annabananna]

When I was single I had a fear of rejection so I would usually wait.

[smartasschick]

Personally depends on what feeling if any are involved. Weather is just friends or someone I want a relationship with matters too..

[spartan55]

Hahahahha, thats funny.