I called a guy heavy and I feel bad?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy through a dating app. Long story short one thing led to the other and we were in his room. I never had sex before and I was overwhelmed & he is a HUGE guy. He was trying to move me on top of him but i kept refusing as I was nervous and i kept pushing him off. He eventually decided to just get on top of me… and he put his full weight on me and i yelled “YOU ARE HEAVY” he adjusted his body and it felt better but i instantly felt soooo bad for yelling that at him but it was from the bottom of my heart because i felt pain I didn’t mean to be offensive 😩 he never texted me back although he was all over me the whole time i feel like an a hole

[HollyK21]

If you guys didn’t hook up ultimately then that’s most likely what it’s about, he’s frustrated that it didn’t happen.

[bowenw]

You had every right to say he was heavy if it was uncomfortable for you. He shouldn't be offended by it as you didn't say he was overweight or anything else that was mean.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Alex-Snow]

You were just being honest. I think heavy is a gentler word than fat. That was probably not the way you wanted for ur first time having sex?

[Nikki1989]

Men call women heavy all the time but do it to them, and they almost always whine like babies. Let it go; he is not worth it.

[Staximus]

You shouldn't feel bad, the guy shouldn't have crushed you with his giant fat body

[Anonymous]

Well he was so it's not a lie... I mean I'm 220 and could do with losing some, I'll call myself a fat bastard

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 if he still f***ed you he didn't feel THAT bad about it. I wouldn't worry about it.

[jahaims]

You didn't do anything wrong