His single female coworker added my boyfriend on FB and chatting to him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend went to a work due. He doesn't know all his colleagues well as he has 200+ workers. He came home slightly drunk. And noticed the following morning that she was a new friend on FB. When he opened his Messenger, I saw they had chatted (but didn't see details). Should I be worried?

[SueShe]

Perhaps not worried but definitely concerned.

People reveal their true identity when they are intoxicating and the fact that he added a new female coworker on his social media could lead me to believe that they had a deeper conversation that coworkers would normally have.

I would definitely keep an eyes on the entire issue and see how it develops. Perhaps that you can casually mention that new female colleague but don't have any hopes that the truth will come out of it. All that will happen is that he will deny any wrongdoing and then be on the defensive.

Simply watch out for signs that are out of the ordinary.

[Asker]

Thank you very much for your answer, it makes a lot of sense. I will bring it up indeed

[Nikki1989]

Most men are cheaters, thinking about cheating or have cheated in the past. However, worrying about it won't do you any good.

[Asker]

He has cheated in the past, not with me, but with an ex. He said he regretted it. Said..

[Sam1133]

Absolutely may be they had sex

[beefcakebradybatson]

Yep.

[In_Trance]

Smfh... Bruh