One of his female Twitter followers popped up on my people you may know on Facebook after we stopped talking?

[Anonymous]

We talked briefly and went on one date.. he ghosted me. Mind you I never followed him on any social media platforms. I did scan through his followers list on TWITTER once just because. I did notice some girls and there was one girl I thought was attractive with pretty makeup. I looked at her page like twice

Like a month later I’m on Facebook and this girl pops up on my Facebook… I’m like she looks mad familiar and then I remember it was the girl…

But she lives out of state and looking back they unfollowed eachother… how tf did she find me? No other girl popped up and that was on whole nother platform

Should I reach out?

[Finchie40]

If someone pops up on your People you May know on your Facebook feed? that means that person was checking you out , so that twitter girl more than likely looked you up first. I know this because my one job was to hire people for employment and part of the background process was to look up their Facebook accounts , a lot of times potential candidates would check out my Facebook and I could see they looked me up as well, by seeing their profile pop up on my feed. So that’s why people shouldn’t put too much personal information on their Facebook accounts especially when seeking employment , Most companies will look you up before reaching out to you.

[Asker]

How would she have found me if she lives out of state?

[Finchie40]

Just typing in your name

[Asker]

No how did she know about me if she lives in a different state

[Finchie40]

There are ways people can track you down on the internet , people can scan your profile picture and put it into a search engine and find out who you are , why internet isn’t the safest thing to be on. The second you sign up to any account on the internet , your information is not safe whatsoever, why it’s best to not put any of your personal information on the internet , there are so many ways to track someone

[Asker]

I understand that but I’m asking were they dating, was she around him… how did she find out who I was through him

[Finchie40]

He probably told her about you is my guess