I added this guy at work on FB but we barely talk. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this guy and whenever I would see him he would wave at me but never really talk to me. We only had one conversation and that was when he was kinda introducing himself to me and vice versa. I added him as a friend on Facebook a couple weeks ago and he accepted it pretty quick. I post on my story frequently and whenever I post something he would react to it. One night when he posted a pic on his story I chose to react to it back. Ever since then, he doesn’t react to my story. He would just view it at the most. I don’t know if I scared him off or what. I want to message him or talk to him when I go back to work, but I’m too nervous to approach him and don’t know what to say. What should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl he totally accepted your friend request quick cause he's into you too! But guys can be shy sometimes so you gotta make the first move.

Next time you see him at work, say hi and smile real big. Then ask him how his weekend was or what's new with him. Keep it light so he doesn't feel on the spot.

If the convo flows easy, you could complement his pic from before and be like "I liked your photo from the other day" and see where it goes from there.

Then get his number! Say something like you should grab lunch together sometime, here put your number in my phone so we can plan it. Bam, now you can text him easier.

Don't overthink it, just be confident and sweet. I bet once you guys start chatting he'll open up. You've totally got this girl, go get your man! 😉

[Asker]

I know you’re probably thinking “just message him already” lol. But I’ll take your advice

[Oliverlogan263]

Haha nah girl, I get being nervous about it! No point rushing things and freaking the poor dude out. Playing it slow and casual is smart - last thing you wanna do is come on too strong. Don't overthink it too much either, just be yourself and see where things go naturally. Ease into chatting a little more each time so it feels comfortable. You got this! Just stay positive and have fun with it, instead of stressing over what could go wrong. Hope it goes well for you! Keep me posted how it's going. Fingers crossed for ya 🤞

[Asker]

I’ll let you know. Thanks for the advice!

[Oliverlogan263]

You're so welcome girl! And of course, feel free to hit me up anytime if you want to chat more or need a confidence boost before taking that next step with him. I'm always here to cheer you on!

I really hope messaging him goes well. But honestly, just the fact that you're putting yourself out there and going for what you want shows how brave and awesome you are. So even if it takes a little time or effort to get there, I know you'll find an amazing guy who appreciates that spunky attitude of yours.

In the meantime, go treat yourself to your fave ice cream or something. You deserve it! And let me know as soon as you message him - I wanna hear all about it. You've got this sis! Sending all the good vibes your way 💪💕

[HateyouxD]

I think he may have a girlfriend or he's waiting for you to say something to him

[slatyb]

He's shy. Invite him to lunch or something.

[Asker]

What makes you think he’s shy

[slatyb]

He hasn't asked you.