I’m angry at my boyfriend for lying about when he added a female coworker on social media?

[Anonymous]

I have recently been unhappy with the relationship between my boyfriend and his female coworker.

He’s following her on instagram. I asked him when he started following her and he said before he met me. Turns out it was when we were dating because insta puts it in chronological order , and it was close to when he started following a couple of venues we used to go to. I’m pretty annoyed, should I let it get to me?

[Anonymous]

If you’re saying that you’ve recently been upset about the relationship, I’d imagine you’ve told him this in some sort of way even if it’s not verbally, and he just doesn’t care. That’s why I think that no matter what, you and him will keep bumping heads about her because they’re still very friendly and it doesn’t matter to him that it bothers you.

[Asker]

Yes he doesn’t care:(

[Opinion Owner]

With that in mind, it’s now up for you to decide if that is the sort of man you want to be in a relationship with or not. You can’t obligate him to have less of a relationship with her, and I think it’s pretty messed up for him not to wanna do that for you in the first place. Says a lot.