Should I text him in this situation?

[Anonymous]

A guy suddenly started pursuing me for two months. He was very active but would sometimes disappear. After two dates, he suggested a trip abroad, which felt strange, so I declined. After some fake call I thought was from him, I got upset and we stopped talking. A month passed, and now I wonder if I should text him.

[HollyK21]

After a month’s passed I wouldn’t reach out. Even a week or two feels like too long.

[live2dance25]

It’s up to you. If you text him a few times over the course of several months and he does not answer, then he might not be interested.

[Asker]

i did not text him. I pushed him away due to a situation that was misunderstood / unfolded incorrectly.

[Anonymous]

No. Why would you do that?

[Asker]

Because I pushed him away due to a situation that was misunderstood / unfolded incorrectly.

[Opinion Owner]

He’s nothing to put your energy towards if ”sometimes disappear” and ask you to go abroad with him after two dates. It’s not like it was peince charming you ”pushed away”. Just move on and gain some standards. Anyone who disappears isn’t worth your time or any sort of effort.

[Asker]

he sent flowers

[In_Trance]

Call him

[Asker]

what do i say

[In_Trance]

What would you text him?

Say that