Is he cheap and a red flag?

[Anonymous]

So, I went on a date with this guy before, but there wasn’t really strong chemistry. He asked me out again and now says, “You’ll drive me, I’ll pay for dinner,” because his car is in the service. On the first date we went for a walk in the cold. Do you think it’s weird that he expects me to drive? i feel like a man

[HollyK21]

His car was in the shop, he couldn’t help that. If it’s such an issue for you you should’ve rescheduled but you seem to be one of those women who isn’t comfortable voicing how she feels. Like going for a walk, it doesn’t sound like you wanted to do that because it was cold out but you went anyway. You should really start being transparent with men you want to date, that’s how issues get resolved, that’s how he learns more about you and what he should or shouldn’t do.

[Zionne]

so its your 2nd date and he's doing negotation already? leave meh

[Alex-Snow]

If his car was in the shop it was not his fault. I would see if he could drive next time. If not you might want to be careful. Does he have a job?

[Sal_Monella]

His timing and judgment were poor. And that IS a red flag.

[Asker]

what do you mean. please explain more

[DryGermanGuy]

You were expecting for him to quickly buy another car, for that date? 🤔

[Anonymous]

I would not say it's weird. if that's his only transportation then he has no way to get around unless he borrows a car and you lost me with the chemistry part

[Anonymous]

You can’t be the age that you say.

[Asker]

i am im just asking

[Anonymous]

You are 36+ and asking this?

[capriVib]

And the fact that she still thinks she can land a rich, handsome 10/10 guy... just how?