Is he a red flag?

[Metelda]

Guys there is a man whom I met on an anonymous app. We had been quite good to each other and from there shared our socials. A few days back he said let's date like an actual relationship however I said I am not ready so let it be casual till we meet (we live in different cities). So basically we chat on that very app and on snapchat too. Sometimes he wanted to talk on call but I didn't want to. Two days back I uninstalled the app and said I am going off for some days. Do you wanna exchange numbers so we can contact on whtsapp but he said he doesn't use that app. it's just for formal stuffs. I somehow believed. I didn't contact him then and today he was (in snap) like why are you still off I said I told you before about that and also asked for your number but you denied. So he said ok let's talk here. I said i dont want to and stay happy with all your chicks.. He replied he doesn't have any chicks and if i dont wanna talk its ok. so should i avoid him or say something? if yes then wht?

[DoctorSex]

I had to check your age. Yes, it does sound like you are 18. In 10 years time, you will look back at this situation and roll your eyes.
Do t concern yourself with internet or phone call flings. True bonds are built in person. Everything else is for the birds...

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Metelda]

sure thnks

[spartan55]

Wow, you are being a real bitch to him.

[Metelda]

really? how?

[spartan55]

He has offered to date you (no), talk on the phone (no) then on top of that you make a snide comment to him about 'all his chicks'... I mean wtf

[Metelda]

right🥲🥲 but then too he didn't share his number or whatsapp contact so that made me suspicious. I didn't want to hurt him i like him. should i apologize?

[spartan55]

He was just giving it back, I don't think he was being suspicious at all. You like him? Lol really? Do you think he would think that right now?

[spartan55]

Yes, you should apologize. Especially about the 'all your chicks' remark. I would have been out at that point.

[Metelda]

oh no🥲🥲 i should have realized that.. thank u for ur opinion.. shall i ask him if he would like to talk on a call or will that be too desperate?

[spartan55]

Lol, that's not even close to desperate. If you call him and apologize he will appreciate that. You would be setting yourself apart from about 90% of other girls by doing that.

[Metelda]

really?🤩 sure i ll do this

[spartan55]

Good luck! Hope it goes well.

[Anonymous]

No, give the guy a chance.

[Metelda]

inspite of his hiding his contact? isn't that fishy?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah that is fishy.

[Metelda]

so let's ignore then?

[Opinion Owner]

If that’s how you feel.

[Metelda]

sure