I’ve decided it’s time for me to stay away from dating as a whole, anyone else?

[Anonymous]

Yeah yeah, I’m young. I don’t really care how young I am at this point, I’m just done with it.

everyone man and woman, have made it a big deal that I have only had one boyfriend in my 23 years of living. And don’t get me started on the fact that I don’t want to have kids, suddenly I’m a horrible person because I’m a woman who doesn’t want to have children.
men will reject me all cause I don’t want to have kids, yet… the man isn’t the one carrying the baby for 9 months or birthing the child…. So… why is he mad that I don’t want to put my body through all that?
also apparently if I don’t want to suck a dudes dick, it’s a big deal breaker… I don’t want someone that someone uses to piss in my mouth even if it’s clean or not. Everyone has a certain boundary they say no to a stick with, that’s just mine. But apparently I wouldn’t be fulfilling his “needs”… and sex isn’t a need it’s a desire… no one will change my mind about that. As kids you didn’t have sex all the time, so it’s not a need. You won’t die without it. Geez.

its not that I won’t have sex with a guy, I just won’t be getting physical until I’m dating him and feel comfortable but again that’s another deal breaker. I have self respect and rules set for myself, I won’t break those things for a guy that might end up ditching me in a few months.
I see married people and majority of the older women say I should get married but the others say don’t do it, cause I’d be signing up to be a maid to a man all while I work a 8 hour job while he works then comes home to just relax. And I personally am not willing to do that. But the biggest worry is him ending up being upset that I don’t feel like having sex sometimes, and it’s apparent that almost all men feel like there partners don’t love/care/want them if they won’t have sex with them whenever they want. Which is sad if I’m doing all those things for you, and you literally equate if I love you if I have sex with you when I want?
That’s just not a man I’d want

[DishLady]

You're too young to be thinking so negatively of seeking connection with a fellow. PERHAPS you're on all the toxic apps. Get off the apps. Go outside. Smell the fresh air. Smile. Meet your guy.

[Asker]

I’m not on any dating apps at all. In the city I live in either guys are already married/dating someone, or are looking for friends with benefits/hookups.

[Berethor]

If a woman don't want to suck a dick it makes me respect her more, sucking a dick is slutty, a lady should be just be bumping nasties to satisfy her man, but not wating to have children is unfeminine and a deal breaker.

[Berethor]

I mean "not wanting to have children is unfeminine and a deal breaker."

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Yet you want ur wife to suck yours?

[Asker]

Unfeminine… girl you’re quite literally a weirdo based off the comments you’ve made on other posts.. go on a leave this post bud.

[dean55au]

You have absolutely no reason at all to feel bad about this life choice, it's your life and your body and don't let the opinions of others get in the way of your choices...

[PeachyPie93]

Could do.. you seem a little too precise but you could always just date an a sexual person as well and live separately should be fine and just tell your partner all this stuff before you start dating..

[Asker]

Not sure what an “asexual” is. Also I didn’t state I wouldn’t live with a partner, I’m just not okay with one who decides if I want, care or love him based on if I have sex with him everytime he wants it.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I agree, you should stay away from dating.😆

[Asker]

Obviously your one of the dudes I described based of this lame response

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Ur literally a few years older version of me

[Asker]

Yesss queen

[Staximus]

Maybe you should become a lesbian

[Asker]

No. And I wish the guys on this app would stop suggesting it, I’m not into women. Im not attracted to them.
Every young woman that’s posted on this app/website regarding things like this tend to get one or two of these loser responses about how they should “be a lesbian”.
Seriously, please stop.

[Staximus]

If you expect oral sex from a man but don't want to give it in return then you're not living in reality. Oral sex is a normal part of sex. If you find that disgusting then just don't have sex. If you don't want to have sex then don't expect a man or woman to stick around. Nobody wants a dead fish in bed. Sexual attraction and sex is a normal part of a romantic relationship. Without that you might as well just be friends. If you have some issues from your past that make you not want to have sex then you need to get past that before you even with about having a normal relationship.

[Staximus]

Think, not with

[Asker]

I don’t expect a man to give me oral. Not sure why your stuck on the whole oral part of it considering that since I posted this I’ve had guys message me saying that they don’t expect oral.
But then again a 48 year old man is telling ME to be lesbian lol. Notice how no where did I say anything about no sex at all? I said I’m not going to want it all the time, does that translate as a no everytime to you? “Nobody wants a dead fish” and it’s literally someone saying they don’t want sex every given moment.
I think the funniest thing is some dudes don’t like giving oral to women and even find it nasty, yet it’s probably no big deal to you. Yet a girl says she finds it nasty to do so and yet all of a sudden I shouldn’t have sex lol. At least be fair to everyone.
🥱 well that’s enough talking to men in there 40’s that spend there time online telling young women what they shouldn’t do all cause they have boundaries. I mean if a man doesn’t want to “stick” around, sure. I don’t really care if he wants to go, so be it he knows where the door is. I’m perfectly okay with letting go of someone who doesn’t fit me, I won’t try and make him stay. People come and go.

[Alex-Snow]

Sounds like a good plan!

[Zionne]

your'e young, enjoy your youth first

[Daytoday79]

Nope